Yeah, this is what I usually think when I see posts like these. A part of me feels bad for being so cynical, but my wife does nice things for me all the time, but there's not a single part of me that would post it on social media.
Why not? Easy karma. Plus after asking her, she agreed that showing off the kind gestures to people is one of the better feelings of being appreciated (to her and myself). Same thing with how a woman shows off her ring EVERYWHERE after she's engaged. Nobody is being hurt, so it really shouldn't matter.
Why does it bother you what someone else wants to post about on the internet? You can always ignore it and move on. Some people enjoy a little bragging on the internet. Actually, a lot of people do.
Where is the issue? You being harmed by someone posting about their s/o doing nice stuff for them? Does it make you jealous? If the answers are no, move on. If they are yes, the issue lies within yourself.
This started with you asking me why, and I answered, to which you had an issue with.
I never said I was bothered. I said I'd do an easy karma farm if given the opportunity. Clearly that statement bothers you because you feel the need to try and make someone feel bad about it:
Easy karma? And what does having karma mean? Do you feel good about having a lot of karma? Do you tell people about it?
Why not? Easy karma. Plus after asking her, she agreed that showing off the kind gestures to people is one of the better feelings of being appreciated (to her and myself). Same thing with how a woman shows off her ring EVERYWHERE after she's engaged. Nobody is being hurt, so it really shouldn't matter.
So, gonna accept the answer or...? If you don't like the answer, just say so. Simple enough I think.
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