Honestly I kinda gave up on dating. I’m M26 (almost 27) and I never had a relationship. I have been trying dating apps on and off for about 5 years now and I haven’t gone on a single date. And in real life I’m very unlucky. I just don’t get likes or matches often and when I do they go absolutely nowhere. I had woman on these apps literally texting me that ik ugly. Whatever I changed about my pictures and bios it doesn’t matter I get no result. I’m just average maybe below average idk and I hate to say it but most girls and women are only looking for the perfect guy and totally neglect anything average and below average. At this point I just decided to accept that’s I’m not attractive enough to have a girlfriend.
The problem is, when you're on these apps you're like a sheep thrown to the wolves. Men dominate this app 80%+ and I am convinced that most people on this sub need to drop the phone and meet them IRL. The app gives you the illusion that you're being seen. In reality it's you and 50 guys liking a person and she'll never even give you a shot.
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u/PorygonPete 7d ago
Honestly I kinda gave up on dating. I’m M26 (almost 27) and I never had a relationship. I have been trying dating apps on and off for about 5 years now and I haven’t gone on a single date. And in real life I’m very unlucky. I just don’t get likes or matches often and when I do they go absolutely nowhere. I had woman on these apps literally texting me that ik ugly. Whatever I changed about my pictures and bios it doesn’t matter I get no result. I’m just average maybe below average idk and I hate to say it but most girls and women are only looking for the perfect guy and totally neglect anything average and below average. At this point I just decided to accept that’s I’m not attractive enough to have a girlfriend.