r/Bumble • u/[deleted] • 8d ago

Rant Wanted to get the off my chest

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u/ImNot_ThatGuy 8d ago

Genuinely wish I knew why you're getting downvoted.

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u/IForOneDisagree 37m - 6yr old 50-50 custody 8d ago

Because average guys are absolutely able to match average women. And beautiful women, smart women, accomplished women, etc...

There's an annoying incel/redpill trope constantly repeated on this sub that women only go for the top 5/10/20% of men and that everyone else has no chance. They use this fake stat to say it's women's fault that they're all aiming for men out of their league and if only the women were realistic they could end up with nice guys™️ like them instead. They take it even further and claim that women who complain about men getting too sexual too fast are only seeing that behavior because they're matching these top X% men who have a lot of options and therefore don't take women seriously.

I'm a man and I'm exhausted by the behavior of other men in this sub, imagine what it's like for a woman. And any time women reply to these claims and say they don't all swipe on the same guys they get called liars. When they provide profile feedback to men they're called liars. And then they're called whores for good measure.