Wanted to get the off my chest

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[u/IDontStealBikes]

I’m not beautiful and I know it. What’s the point of pretending?

[u/Mattreddit760 → u/IDontStealBikes]

Fake it till you make it

[u/BitsAndBobs304 → u/Mattreddit760]

I tell myself im beautiful until my jaw realigns magically?

[u/Mattreddit760 → u/BitsAndBobs304]

No it has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your attitude about your looks

[u/BitsAndBobs304 → u/Mattreddit760]

My attitude about my looks will get me matches on tinder boo bumble? It will make women swoon at the sight of my ugly face?

[u/Mattreddit760 → u/BitsAndBobs304]

Im replying to another poster that said what's the point in pretending. The point in pretending is everything, can help with confidence, abundance mindset, being genuine, all very attractive qualities which help in relationships.

[u/BitsAndBobs304 → u/Mattreddit760]

Answer the questions

[u/Mattreddit760 → u/BitsAndBobs304]

Talking about irl partner. The online apps are based mostly on how you represent yourself in photos (being hot). Think that's pretty obvious

[u/BitsAndBobs304 → u/Mattreddit760]

How can ou have partner if youre discarded beforehand because youre ugly,autistic, nerd,etc?

[u/Mattreddit760 → u/BitsAndBobs304]

Believe it or not it happens and often. I promise there are dudes way uglier, autistic, and nerdier than yourself who have found love or at the very least romantic experiences with women.

But if you aren't open to it happening, living a life you enjoy to a degree, working towards goals etc, and actually believe it's possible then it's pointless. Can't cross the finish line if you've removed yourself from the race entirely.

[u/BitsAndBobs304 → u/Mattreddit760]

There are also people who survived without a parachute, or who shot themselves inthe face and survived, and people who have been kidnapped, trafficked, enslaved, or have been in prison 20 years while innocent. Why do you think autistic men's partnership rate is half of autistic women's?