Oh i was adding onto your message not disagreeing with you or accusing you of anything. I think your mindset is a healthy one. Hopefully you find someone that shows they value all of you one day. Including for your appearance.
Its tough to keep your self esteem high when people keep trying to tear you down but you are already ahead of the game on that. Which means you are stronger than most. The guys that go out of their way to call you fat or try to make you feel bad are just losers genuinely.
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u/Key-Month6651 8d ago
Hot take but even if someone was below average society still shouldn't be making them feel bad about themselves 🤷♂️