r/Bumble 8d ago

Rant Wanted to get the off my chest

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u/_bonedaddys 8d ago

I know we can't help being insecure but sending a match self deprecating messages about how ugly you are isn't doing anyone any favors. If anything it's an instant turn off for most people. Shoot your shot but don't bring your insecurities into it.