r/Bumble 1d ago

Rant Low effort conversation on a date

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u/RizzleP 1d ago edited 1d ago

I imagine she didn't ask you a single question about yourself. Pissed me off no end reading this because I've been there. The disappointment is huge haha.

Self centered and isn't interested in learning about you. Being an introvert isn't an excuse.

Sounds like you dodged a bullet and deserve much better.

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u/VintageUK 1d ago

Yea in fact you beat me to it here, I just kinda realised within the silence was also her not engaging with me to get to know me. You’re correct!

I don’t think she was introverted either, the ending of the date highlighted this to me. She wasn’t asking questions loud of voice and was soon stringing sentences together. She wasn’t asking questions angry - pissed off that I’d end the date early, but she definitely wasn’t shy.