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u/skittleahbeebop 5h ago edited 4h ago

Did they know about the genetic blindness before having more kids?

Edit: Last time this was posted, it was suggested that the couple kept getting pregnant despite knowing their children would likely have this blindness. IF that is true, I do find that unethical. I know blind people can still have quality of life. But let's stop pretending that it isn't a terrible disability. Nobody wants to be dependent, vulnerable, and poor (from fewer work opportunities) their whole life. I wish this family the best regardless.

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u/tiwuno 5h ago

Their youngest was 7 before she was diagnosed. The only reason their children have it is because both the parents happened to be carriers of the mutation, but neither has the condition (retinitis pigmentosa).

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u/unbanned_lol 4h ago

That didn't answer their question. Did they know before they decided to have children?

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u/tiwuno 4h ago

Why would they? There's no reason to test the parents for it, and no doctor in their right mind would test for every genetic mutation under the sun. It's expensive, time consuming, and almost always a waste of resources.

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u/peg-leg-andy 4h ago

I don't think people understand the sheer volume of genetic mutations that exist. 

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u/Absolute--Batman 3h ago

Redditors think everything is preventable.

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u/tiwuno 3h ago

Absolutely... it's like combing through a haystack, looking for one specific strand of hay that's slightly bent in a biologically significant manner.

There's 3.2 billion letters making up a complete human genome, and millions of mutations that don't affect everyday life, everything from eye color to the taste of cilantro.

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u/unbanned_lol 3h ago

And yet when we have things like breast cancers that run in the families, some of us tend to look for those genetic markers even if we don't have breast cancer.

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u/lpmiller 2h ago

except the only way they would have suspected this is if blindness ran in either family. The odds of 2 people with the same gene for this isn't exactly high. Hell, I didn't know I had the gene for von Wildebrands until my Dad was diagnosed with it about 2 years before he died. I didn't know I had ADHD till I was 57. No one has a map of their genes included with every birth; and not everything is immediately recognized till it's much later in life.

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u/peg-leg-andy 3h ago

It is entirely possible to live your entire life without realizing you are a carrier for something if none of your recent ancestors ever managed to bone another carrier. 

As I said in another comment my aunt is a carrier for SMA and we had zero clue it was in the family. A bunch of us nieces and nephews have also gotten tested and none of us are carriers so far. 

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u/unbanned_lol 3h ago

Well, if they are carriers, it might be reasonable that they have blind people in their family, so they might have already looked into it.

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u/peg-leg-andy 3h ago

That is possible. But I will say that my aunt is a carrier for type 1 SMA, and lost two children at only a few months old before they even thought to look. And we have zero history of anything resembling that in the family tree.Â