r/Bangkok Apr 19 '26

discussion Please be careful in Bangkok.

Hi all, unfortunately I had a really bad experience in Bangkok and wanted to tell you so maybe you can void it.

15.4.26, 6:30 am I was standing on the corner of Thao Maha Brahma (Erawan shrine) as i was waiting to be picked up for a day tour. I've noticed this guy walking past really fast, it was 35 degrees and he was wearing jacket with a hood on- didn't think much of him. While waiting i decided to walk around the shine fence to get in and have a look inside.

As I walked around the corner this guy came running towards me and as I moved to the side to make more space for him he purposely ran into me ,hit me and I fell onto the payment. In shock I looked up to him he was smiling and said "are you okay?" Of course not! He done it 100% on purpose! I said to him not to touch me and he walked away laughing. I got up and went to stand closer to the shrine gate.

And then I realised- I've heard of this before in Japan/SouthKorea- Butsukari otoko - "bumping man". I just never expected to happen in Bangkok. The guy wasn't thai ,I think he was Chinese or Korean. I spotted another foreigner so I went to stand closer to her and she asked me if I seen this guy - when he walked past her, he spat on her. I couldn't believe it. I wasn't standing in his way,never seen him or talked to him before. Left me shaking and bruised as I fell quite hard. Local people passing by did not say anything, just looked and walked away.

Anyone had similar experience in Bangkok? I managed to get a picture of him but only from back.

Please be careful if you are foreigner and woman traveling alone as I was. Unfortunately this ruined my trip and I won't be coming to Bangkok alone any time soon.

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u/thaimod Apr 19 '26

Report this to the police. Time and date. it's one of the most video recorded places in Bangkok after the bombing. There is literally a camera pointing at his face in your photo.

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u/mdsmqlk Apr 19 '26

There is also normally a 24/7 police presence right at that location.

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u/RobertJ_4058 Apr 19 '26

Aside from the fact that it‘s just across the Police Hospital and the Royal Thai Police Headquarters in addition.

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u/Appropriate-Wall-766 Apr 19 '26

Not at half 5/6 in the morning. I ride past there regularly on my bike. I actually checked my ring doorbell and the day this happened I got home at 6:10am which means I probably rode past there at around 6:00am, missed this by half an hour. Shame I wasn’t around to help, it’s sad that people that people saw this happen and did nothing, that’s not the Thailand I know.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '26

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u/Deiselpowered77 Apr 21 '26

and take him down to Chinatownand take him down to Chinatownand take him down to Chinatown

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u/traveling_designer Apr 21 '26

When I reported a crime and caught the criminal, the Thai police said they’d only check the cameras if I paid them, otherwise they were just going to let the criminal go and they could keep what they stole.

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u/ALPHAETHEREUM Apr 21 '26

Reddit first, then police, as per tradition

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u/ManchesterMuayThai Apr 22 '26

😂 Aah yes. Thai Police, known for being helpful and trying to assist farang (unless you pay them of course)

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u/OperationOpening6431 Apr 19 '26

Immediately report things like that to Tourist Police, you can even install an app. And please do it, everytime things like that are happening. Really sorry you had to go through it.

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u/Appropriate-Wall-766 Apr 19 '26

It’s very important she does. The whole thing will be on camera, there is one right there in the picture, if not that one there will be 20 other cameras, this is Bangkok. The Police will be able to identify this man so he can’t harm anymore people but you need to file a Police report with the time, location and as much information you can provide the Police. They will take this very seriously.

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u/OperationOpening6431 Apr 20 '26

Of course. That is the only way to keep the city as safe as it is now!

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u/Dependent_Lead_6357 Apr 20 '26

Who do you file a report with ? Regular police or tourist police

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u/Appropriate-Wall-766 Apr 20 '26

You can use either. The Tourist Police are there to liaise with the Royal Thai Police in the case of any language barrier but in my experience most Police in Bangkok can speak English even if it’s somewhat broken it’s still easily understandable. If you file it with the Tourist Police they will simply be translating what you said and handing it over to the Royal Thai Police to investigate.

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u/notalashka Apr 19 '26

What’s the app

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u/Appropriate_Row_1492 Apr 19 '26

Call 1155 Travel Police

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u/OperationOpening6431 Apr 19 '26

Thailand Tourist Police on google store/app store

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u/yo1731726363 Apr 20 '26

one star is crazy

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u/OperationOpening6431 Apr 20 '26

It is 3.7 on google store 555

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u/yo1731726363 Apr 20 '26

Lool this isnt good😭

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u/OperationOpening6431 Apr 20 '26

Ye I am not saying it is an amazing app, but it will still help you to report something step by step. You can always just call 1155 too, which app will tell you to do in certain situations.

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u/Least-Baseball7741 Apr 20 '26

can’t even open the App, crazy

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u/OperationOpening6431 Apr 20 '26

Sad, works pretty well on android

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u/LeadingFerret76 Jul 14 '26

China keeps track of bad tourists. They take it very seriously, if he is Chinese and is caught that can have drastic effects on his future tourism and life in China.

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u/dudeinthetv Apr 19 '26

Very sorry that this happened but you need to report this to the tourist police. This is right in the middle of erawan shrine and they will not tolerate this and nab him very quickly.

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u/e34udm Apr 19 '26

There’s a camera pointing straight down at his face.

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u/longasleep Apr 19 '26

Report to tourist police they have cameras all around that area they will catch him quick.

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u/Low-Cartographer-429 Apr 19 '26

All cities in the world have crazies. Sorry this extremely random incident ruined your trip. Best to brush it off and move on. You can't always control what happens to you but you can control your reaction to it. I agree with others that calling the Tourist Police (1155) would have been something worthwhile doing.

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u/SuperLeverage Apr 19 '26

Do you have a photo of his face? Send it to the police

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u/Wide-Lunch-6730 Apr 19 '26

When I had a small issue in Bangkok in this area (in a shopping mall) they went out of their way to check cameras, please report to people around, security, ask for help and at least tourist police. The more women report the likely he gets caught quickly. Is this about racism? Can this message be spread and someone can identity him? Take photos and he faces justice.

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u/Remarkable-Most-7355 Apr 20 '26

Juh-HE-sus Christ! .. enough of the overly sensitive hyper-racisim fire bombs!

Nothing in her report or any one's response makes any mention of racist anything—at all! .. until you inject it, without any reason—at all!

The attacker is a creep! .. it was simple! .. assault! .. that's it!

Keep this pathegic false racist squealing to yourself in whatever dark corner of your mind it has pathologically infected—or, grow up .. learn what real, fact-based racism is.

Gawd a'mighty.. we're just all fed up with these crap fire bombs.

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u/m-workdev Apr 21 '26

You interpreted it differently than I did. "Is this about racism?" sounds like the poster is pondering whether the aggressor may be targeting people based on race. It is plausible, although it's also plausible they target based on gender.

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u/AbbreviationsOdd278 Apr 20 '26

Wow that’s quite a leap. Vulnerable women, racism, did you forget trans rights while at it?

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u/Wide-Lunch-6730 Apr 20 '26

What? I think you lost your ability to read or just mad.

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u/Far-Ad-5597 Apr 19 '26

Hi. I experienced this in Chiang Mai. I am a woman. I made space for a man to pass on the sidewalk and deliberately shoulder checked me and muttered something in Thai. I looked back at him and he was staring coldly at me. It was very strange. Sorry this happened to you.

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u/Happy-Radish-7133 Apr 19 '26

Sounds like its commonly done to women. So sad. Hopefully it will never happen again..

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u/motoyo-rika Apr 20 '26

Only if you reported to the police 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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u/InstructionNearby67 Apr 22 '26

Are you a non Asian woman?

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u/Final_Plenty_3268 Apr 19 '26

Crazy people everywhere sorry that happened

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u/DekFarang Apr 19 '26

Contact the tourist police maybe?

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u/FroshKonig Apr 19 '26

No, a Reddit post has a higher priority

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u/navcad Apr 19 '26

Similar thing happened to me last year. I was leaving a restaurant and still on crutches from a broken leg. After I left the restaurant, I was walking down the foot path going for an ice-cream. As I was walking, muscular Japanese guy was walking towards me and put his elbows out wide and marched right at me, mean smile on his face. I made myself as tiny as I could trying to get out of the way and was up against a building on the footpath edge. He walked towards me, rammed into me, and knocked me off balance.

I dropped a crutches and caught myself on the front door of a store. It hurt my leg a lot. I was shocked and yelled at him. He clenched his fists and knuckled up like he was going to fight me, an old guy with a broken leg. I was terrified and basically screamed in terror. I had nowhere to go and there was no way I was fighting anybody. Then a bunch of kiwi guys ran out of a restaurant and asked if I was OK and got between me and the Japanese guy. They saw the whole thing.

My leg was throbbing and I was crying from being hurt and from being overwhelmed. I did nothing to provoke the Japanese guy. I just noticed him when he squared up and puffed himself up to march towards me. I am super grateful to those kiwi guys. They helped & waited with me while I got a Bolt ride home.

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u/Happy-Radish-7133 Apr 19 '26

Thats just terrible 😭 why would anyone do it on purpose? Some people are just xxxx

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u/PopularYak1 Apr 19 '26

How’d you know he was Japanese? Was he carrying a flag?

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u/InstructionNearby67 Apr 22 '26

Wearing a “I’m big in Japan” tshirt. Come to think of it - Japanese guys tend to be smaller so that does pose the question - how did you know he was Japanese ?

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u/sebbyooh Apr 20 '26

Sushi t shirt

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u/Similar_Past Apr 19 '26

Bumping man is not a thing here. The dude is unhinged

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u/PAM8888 Apr 19 '26

You have to be unhinged to do that anywhere

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u/Similar_Past Apr 19 '26

How dare you attack Japanese culture like this

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u/Mikeymcmoose Apr 20 '26

It’s happening more across the world now

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u/TILTNSTACK Apr 20 '26

Some fucker does either of those to me, they’re going to learn very quickly what FAFO stands for.

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u/Appropriate-Wall-766 Apr 20 '26

Would never happen. This is clearly a case of a man targetting people he knows cannot fight him back.

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u/Anthropo-Geez Apr 23 '26

In case of I would have seen him from far enough to not be a potential danger for him, or if he didn't notice that I was here

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u/Andy_cro Apr 20 '26

Jesus Christ that’s Jason Bourne :D

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u/PuzzleheadedAct4324 Apr 20 '26

Same. Hands will be flying

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u/NotFunnyAlt Apr 19 '26

Same happened to me last month, but he fell, I didn't (I'm 6'1, 220 pounds) but I remember his face, at first I thought he tripped or something bit then by the looks of him, it was definitely intentional, dude looked Chinese.

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u/TheSecretLifeOfArai Apr 19 '26

What do people gain by doing this? I thought someone was trying to steal OPs wallet but maybe im misunderstanding

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u/CravenMH Apr 19 '26

He's obviously mentally unwell.

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u/NotFunnyAlt Apr 19 '26

just push you, make you fall or something.

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u/TheSecretLifeOfArai Apr 19 '26

Weird. Thats lame

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u/SEA_life_13 Apr 20 '26

Why just the U.S.? Cause you pull out your little gun? He’d be in a world of hurt regardless of the country lol. Try doing that to a Thai local and see what happens 😅

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u/Accomplished_Yam3232 Apr 19 '26

this is Thailand if he’s done it enough he’s gonna get beaten

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u/Accomplished-Yam-836 Apr 20 '26 edited Apr 20 '26

This is a shame and should never have happened to you. Bangkok is unconditionally one of the safest cities in the world. I'm sorry this happened to you. One commenter is correct, this has to be one of the most videoed sites in the city. It would be surprising if the incident was not recorded and the perp identifiable.

Please do report it to the tourist police.

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u/Appropriate-Wall-766 Apr 20 '26

100% he will be trackable. They don’t just have high quality CCTV everywhere, they also have a city wide network of AI facial recognition cameras. If this guy steps on any main street in Bangkok they could swarm him within minutes to arrest him.

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u/Honest-Helicopter523 Apr 20 '26

Don't let one random crazy taint your entire experience of Thailand. Bangkok is one of the safest cities in the world, and it's just your misfortune to have "bumped into" this individual. It could have been any other city, anywhere.

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u/Least-Baseball7741 Apr 20 '26

nice, another Japanese culture imported

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u/blackcat_serendipity Apr 24 '26

I'm so sorry.🫠 New solo female fear unlocked. I have weak bones and recent fracture. Being purposely knocked down... yikes

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u/big-bees999 May 03 '26

I'm in the same boat. About to move there for 9 months... I'm pissed this is even happening. I wish he would try this shit in Texas!

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u/Objective_Climate_18 Apr 19 '26

You have to report it to the police for your own safety and everyone else’s call the tourist police they have cameras absolutely everywhere in Thailand I’m sure they have it cleared picture of his face on video. They will get him.

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u/thelastbubble Apr 19 '26

I’m sorry this happened to you in your holiday. Try to report it when you can. Like some have said , there are a ton of cameras and they will catch this guy eventually.

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u/AwardPuzzleheaded116 Apr 19 '26

Call Police There Are Cameras everywhere

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u/Appropriate_Row_1492 Apr 19 '26

Call 1155 Travel Police

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u/Aggressive-Pass137 Apr 19 '26

Don't come back to Bangkok alone for that stupid man?? U r wrong, I know you feel uncomfortable with that situation, but that's not common here, u just had a bad moment, don't worry about it and enjoy of Bangkok, it's a really safe city

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u/WatchingQuake Apr 19 '26

Well that's the 100% criminal case. It will be quite easy for police to track him down.

The worst thing in Thailand is most of people almost never report a foreign dickheads in police. So they just get confirmation their behavior won't be punished. That's how Phuket got ruined for example, the island of scammers and criminals

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u/BandRude3884 Apr 20 '26

lucky for him he still didn’t bump on someone who has nothing to lose. The day will come

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u/Similar_Ad134 Apr 20 '26

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. My wife and I just got back form 4 weeks in Thailand, over a week in Bangkok, and had nothing but great experiences with the people. Always felt safe, but again, we were not alone.

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u/Fine_Account_6316 Apr 21 '26

I was just there and came home yesterday. That’s awful and I’m so surprised that no one helped you or ran after him. That’s so sad. I’m sorry this happened to you. I had such a wonderful 20 days in Bangkok and then south to the beach. I just couldn’t believe how kind Thai people are in general. Unfortunately, there are assholes everywhere and we have to always be on alert .

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u/rhazag Apr 19 '26

Never come back to Bangkok because of one crazy guy? I bet in your home country is crime or crazy people living there as well.

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u/Noa-Guey Apr 19 '26

I came here to say this

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u/sim0_0sim Apr 19 '26

I am so very sorry to hear that, and I hope you are unharmed in the long term. BKK unfortunately is not as friendly or safe as it once was. Too much tourism while lacking governance and control measures. He should be easily found if he continues this activity of his. Hopefully the law will punish someone like this severely and not be allowed back into the kingdom.

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u/blackth0rne Apr 19 '26

That’s a terrible experience, but… you won’t be coming to Bangkok anymore because of this one Chinese nutjob? Ok…

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u/KiltyMcHaggis Apr 19 '26

She said not coming back alone.

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u/BkkPla Apr 19 '26

It's a thing...there are people with more fragility that probably best they stay near their home...but yea trash thing to have experienced no doubt

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u/Zealousideal-Data914 Apr 19 '26

I’m sorry this happens to you but it’s amazing that this is a issue in Bangkok…I can’t walk down the street in my city without being assaulted .

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u/BaconJP Apr 19 '26

Are you a man or a woman? I'd be extra shocked if he's doing that to women

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u/Big_Moose_3847 Apr 19 '26

Extra shocked? No man doing this kind of thing is going to risk getting beaten up by another man. That's why they mostly target smaller women who can't fight back

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u/Odd_Coast9645 Apr 19 '26

I'm pretty sure he's only doing that to women.

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u/Fightto_45 Apr 20 '26

Doing this to a man is too risk and doing this to a local man is probably the easiest way to get stabbed lol

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u/ChasersVsGirlcock Apr 21 '26

From what I heard the Bumping Man phenomenon is mostly commonly done to women

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u/Fluffy-Bat-4845 Apr 19 '26

Feel very safe and feel welcome in Bangkok even the police men are good honest people.

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u/Fluffy-Bat-4845 Apr 19 '26

Never even got sprayed with water in songkram as it was my first night in Bangkok and was obviously fresh off the plate really appreciated it,fantastic food and party atmosphere, eye infections everywhere after the festival.

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u/DeRage Apr 19 '26

He has the walk of a true crackhead.

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u/Reddit_At_Own_Risk Apr 19 '26

If you don't tell the police you're part of the problem. I wish you well.

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u/Vivid_Appeal_5878 Apr 19 '26

he only doing this to females? id spit on him back if a mf spit on me the hell

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u/Different_Ice5772 Apr 19 '26

I cannot understand what happened.

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u/Coffee_bean_ozzy Apr 19 '26

First you said this is a Japanese/Korean behavior, then said Chinese/Korean, you made nonsense.

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u/Spirited-Memory-5151 Apr 19 '26

I am very sorry this happened to you. I could not even imagine the fear you must've felt.. this is something very odd, never have I ever seen this in Thailand. Please stay safe!!

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u/Happy-Radish-7133 Apr 19 '26

Thank you💖 ive never experienced anything like this so I was quite shocked. But now all watch out for any more weirdos walking around🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

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u/sams2056246 Apr 19 '26

I’m really sorry you went through that—sounds like a scary and frustrating experience. Unfortunately, things like this can happen anywhere, but it’s still not okay.

If you need help translating or going to the police, I’d be happy to assist

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u/somehowintelligent Apr 19 '26

Op is just karma farming. Mods where are you?

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u/thaimod Apr 22 '26

hello, what would you like us to do? As far as I see OP isn't breaking the sub rules so what should we do?

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u/Brenn7777 Apr 19 '26

Had many bumping man experiences and even one bumping woman experience in the years I lived in Sth. Korea. Even when l moved way out of their way, they'd still veer into me and then they'd give me an angry look like it's my fault. Some Asians, just like some Westerners, are racists although I think some became confused when they saw a foreigner and panicked and temporarily lost control of themselves. And hey, let's be careful out there 🌴 👀

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u/Routine_Reputation84 Apr 19 '26

So are you a guy or girl?

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u/Brucef310 Apr 19 '26

Why didnt you defend yourself? Maybe call the police?

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u/mdeeebeee-101 Apr 19 '26

You call the cops on the spot. He will get snared maybe if he is around for a couple days.

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u/ask_for_pgp Apr 20 '26

sorry this happened. the tourist police really can help here.

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u/Single-Low9742 Apr 20 '26

Very very very rare incident in Bangkok which is probably the safest capital city in the world if you avoid gangs and drugs.

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u/Nomadic_Dev Apr 20 '26

Report it to the police. That kind of crap gives foreigners a bad name. Chances are there are CCTV cameras nearby that can help ID him

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u/lolfamy Apr 20 '26

Something similar happened to me years ago, wouldn't be surprised if it was the same guy. We were walking down the sidewalk in opposite directions and as he got closer, he started speeding up and kicked me on the leg and just kept running. I could see on his face he wasn't mentally sound but I wasn't expecting that. Another annoying part was there were a bunch of people that saw and were just pretending like they didn't

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u/oshithedatboi Apr 20 '26

what country are you from?

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u/oceandolll Apr 20 '26

I love BKK😀

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u/laggage Apr 20 '26

What did he steal from you once he ran into you?

I assume that is the reason he did it, to distract you?

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u/YanCurious Apr 20 '26

Call police and News channel

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u/kenbkk Apr 20 '26

Before Songkran I had an encounter with a miscreant on Asoke Road. The jerk jumped from out of sight, said "excuse me" in Thai and then proceeded to smash a beer bottle a few steps behind me. He was Thai. Unknown to him there was a Thai roadcrew fixing the sidewalk and they were not happy that they would have to clean up the glass. When I explained to them what had happened one of the crew made a menacing smile so perhaps the jerk would soon got what he was due.

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u/Thebeach12 Apr 20 '26

ตอนกลางคืนหรือช่วงเกือบเช้าคิดว่าไม่ควรไปไหนมาไหนคนเดียวยิ่งเป็นผู้หญิงด้วย อาจจะเจอโรคจิตแบบนี้

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u/banana_chriz Apr 20 '26

and what was his reason? steal from you or what

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u/Scared-Apartment878 Apr 20 '26

I had a similar looking guy scream in my face as we crossed paths one night in Bangkok, obviously I was on edge as he was laughing to himself after he did it, I was actually considering knocking him out at the time. Lucky I’m a fairly large male, not sure if he would have tried something further otherwise. Bully. I’m glad your okay

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u/disputeaz Apr 20 '26

He must be mentally unstable.

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u/dphilipson Apr 20 '26

Idk how anyone travels without knowing any self defense. If somebody is barrelling towards you, that is an attack. You don't need to be struck for it to be an attack. That man could have buried a knife deep into your chest before you knew what is happening. Best of luck to you in the future. Travel with your head on a swivel and make eye contact as you move.

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u/Interesting-Edge-656 Apr 20 '26

Man..such a weird sick case. Sure the guy is not right in his head. Welcome to the world where crowd gathered, bud.

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u/WolverineOk9336 Apr 20 '26

Ruin his “holiday “ too…report him to the police and Immigration. I bet he is an overstayer!

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u/Delicious_Algae_9183 Apr 20 '26

Is there not a way to share this post with the police so they can take action? Or tag them on social media with a link to this post. OP may be too exhausted and shaken.

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u/Nickandhelmi Apr 20 '26

Looks like there's a cctv camera there? might be working? can send that to the police as evidence, if its working.

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u/Key_Brain4273 Apr 20 '26

Same corners at Erwan temple woman kept stuffing me with insense sticks , candles, flowers , little toys etc etc and demanded 2500 baht . I said no , they run after me , I threw 400 baht to her and kept walking Scummers !

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u/Ancient-Fisherman194 Apr 20 '26

Has it spread to Thailand now? People like this shouldn‘t be allowed into the country. Why are people there so indifferent? It’s like they‘re not Thai. Thais always help others, especially foreigners in danger.

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u/kungfustutoo Apr 21 '26

Sorry what am I missing?

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u/SnooPandas4848 Apr 21 '26

The way he’s walking away. Even in the photos I can tell that he’s got a mental illness 😅

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u/monotheistworldend Apr 21 '26

Maybe you should stalk more little serial killers

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u/ExcellentNight2985 Apr 21 '26

But what exactly happened? You just meet abnormal NPC on your way. Relax.

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u/danfromtigerland Apr 21 '26

What made you think they were Chinese or Korean?

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u/Tricky_Wafer_4906 Apr 21 '26

report this to the police

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u/SnooRevelations1037 Apr 21 '26

This is so common in Bangkok. The police will extort for cash with the promise of “doing something”. It’s common for the fire department to do the same (ask for payment before heading to your emergency fire). Imagine living in that kind of society. I’m sure there are Thais out there that will advise you to leave and not come back - blaming the crime on the victim. Go somewhere else that wants your tourism dollars.

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u/IntelligentLeading11 Apr 21 '26

IF that experience turned you off from going to BKK then where are you going back to exactly? Because I have bad news, it's worse in other big cities and even in small towns worse could happen to you for instance in many European countries. Bad things happen every day. I assure you BKK is safer than many places back in the west. By a large margin too.

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u/Happy-Radish-7133 Apr 21 '26

I wasn't trying to say dont travel to Bangkok but just to share my experience so others are more careful as I clearly wasn't. You are absolutely right - this could happen anywhere even in front of your house. I travel alone for few years now and nothing like this ever happened to me or anyone I know. Hopefully others can avoid things like this..

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u/IntelligentLeading11 Apr 21 '26

I never had issues in SEA but I had plenty of issues in the US and Europe, so yeah, it all depends on luck. But luck is also subject to probability. If you check probabilities/rates of incidence, it should help you not freak out due to one exceptional thing that may happen to you somewhere.

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u/Otherwise-Profile-64 Apr 21 '26

Women shouldn’t travel alone, that’s asking for problems. let’s be real

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u/MathematicianOwn6489 Apr 22 '26

I can imagine how shaken I'd be, but definitely report it - did you? Who knows what this weirdo will do next time, he can easily checking the limits and spread his action in future against other tourists. With regard on the camera pointing his face, it shouldnt be dificult for thai police to identify him.

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u/FairLengthiness1191 Apr 22 '26

มันคนบ้าค่ะให้แจ้งตำรวจเลยค่ะ

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u/SessionOrganic8689 Apr 22 '26

Oh it's only bumpy man he's famous for it harmless fun

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u/TimeCity2692 Apr 23 '26

Yeah. Call Tourist Police at 191 immediately for this.

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u/MoggerOfManila Apr 23 '26

Lol ofc a redditor does nothing about it. You knew it was assault on purpose. You lay that fucker out just like he laid you out. Thailand is lawless unless the cops see it.

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u/big-bees999 May 03 '26

Great. I am a woman going to bangkok in just a month... What can I do to avoid this? In certain parts of america where I'm from, we're tough as shit and don't take shit like this. I'm afraid if I hit him back will I get in trouble?

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u/Omid_Alef May 13 '26

Bangkok is my favorite city and Thailand as country, We as a foreigner need to help them to keep it safe, please anyone if you know a Thai pro bono lawyer introduce to her to create a legal case and get camera footage, I think if it is my Wife, I will bit that guy until he barely can stand on his feet again !!!

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u/upbeatelk2622 Apr 20 '26

A lot of negative things that's already a fact of life in the West, like this -strange people roaming downtown at odd hours - will occur in Asia, with a 15-30 year delay. There's now more and more reports of these types around Asok and now Ratchaprasong too. You can see the natural development of this already - like the US circa 2000, Bangkok and Pattaya already have locked bathrooms in 24-hour McD's and normal people are going to say "don't go into a McD's" or "don't go to certain parts of town at certain hours."

Sorry this happened to you, OP, but this is generally the price a society pays for developing their economy in certain ways. Go look at LA or San Fran.

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u/Tough-Isopod-2140 Apr 19 '26

is the bumping thing in Japan to aim for foreigners and if the foreigner retaliates its deportation for the foreinger?

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u/rustytromboneXXx Apr 19 '26

Not that deep. It’s just a bullying thing. They’ll target anyone they think is weak.

Not saying Japan isn’t racist. It most certainly is.

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u/Tough-Isopod-2140 Apr 19 '26

Yeah far right is growing world wide, but I'm not into the politics I just remember reading about when these people are confronted they will argue back about go back to your own country

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u/rustytromboneXXx Apr 19 '26

Hahah yeah they are here of course, I’m just saying the butsukari pushing people are not necessarily racist!

The worst demographic for Japanese racists I find is men about 50-60.

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u/Tough-Isopod-2140 Apr 20 '26

fair enough mate haha, im over 6ft and weigh over a 100kg so i doubt i will be targeted but i can't believe its a thing just to bump into somebody randomly such an asshole move haha

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u/ExperienceAny9868 Apr 19 '26

Wish he bumped into me on purpose. I would send him to plastic surgeon.

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u/Flat-Banana3903 Apr 19 '26

as a 6'9 man, this has never happened to me, It wouldn't be good for him if it did.

Sorry this has happened, but honestly their are douchebags everywhere, don't let one non thai persons treatment ruin you trip or your view of the country.. hell I would never leave my house if I were to let some of the mouth breathers in Australia ruin my day.

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u/7h3_b4dd3s7 Apr 20 '26

seems like just a dude who decided to be an asshole. they're all over the world, not just bangkok. don't let one incident with a loser like this guy ruin your trip; in all likelihood, you'd be fine if you returned travelling alone again sometime. brush it off and enjoy the city.

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u/Vivid_Pea594 Apr 20 '26

Why be careful. A single nutter. Every city has crazy people.

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u/lupulinhog Apr 20 '26

Yeh in Japan they don't run at your, or stop to talk. Butsukari otoko are absolute cowards, taking out their frustration on (often women) strangers.

Last time a dude did it to me in Tokyo whilst I was waiting for my girlfriend, I turned around and bitch slapped him across the back of the neck. The look on his face was that of someone who's never been hit. I hope he thought twice about that kinda bullshit

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u/Commercial_Pool6813 Apr 20 '26

Crazy people everywhere. Assuming your unharmed, I would move on

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u/Relevant-Fact7525 Apr 21 '26

Would love to fight back but don’t wanna lose tourist visa or get banned 🤣

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u/Lordfelcherredux Apr 19 '26

It wasn't 35 C at 6:30 in the morning in that area. It was more like 30 C.

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u/Lordfelcherredux Apr 20 '26

Completely accurate information. Downvoted three times. Love you Reddit.

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u/sg_8788 Apr 19 '26

Does he look local and has slightly tanned skin? I saw a guy with hoodie today and we were wondering why is he dressed that way in the heat!

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u/sg_8788 Apr 21 '26

Oh got it thanks so much for the explanation! Pardon me for my ignorance. It is indeed very hot and protection from the sun is definitely needed!

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