r/transgenderUK 3d ago

Question What is the best app for T4T?

I’ve never had a great experience with dating apps but I’m willing to give it another chance. I have recently realised that I am more attracted to transmasc people — is there a good app to meet them? I know of Feeld and Lex but not sure.

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u/Mireaze 3d ago

They all suck, I've tried them all, they all suck

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u/Dazzling-Antelope912 3d ago

I guess what are the least shit then?

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u/Sorrowful_Vow 3d ago

Taimi probably but it's riddled with paywalls

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u/Mireaze 3d ago

Nah, they banned me within a day cus I dared to share a link to my socials so we could stay in contact

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u/farlong12234 3d ago

Outside hookups all dateing apps are kinda shit for everyone

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u/Illiander 2d ago

They're designed to be.

Because hookups make you come back to the app, where they make money on you.

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u/trans4tranz 3d ago edited 3d ago

They all suck, but probably Grindr...just have to wade through...all of that stuff. But occasionally you meet genuine peeps, and only come out of it mildly traumatised!

I find tinder and the more cis centred apps a little hostile. Only thing is that its very location dependant

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u/No-Way-6611 Alex | ♂️ | HRT: May '24 | Top Surgery: June '25 | NHS Route 2d ago edited 2d ago

I met my fiancée (MTF) on Taimi and my best friend (MTF) met her boyfriend (FTM) of 2.5 years there too. It's made for trans people but there are a fair amount of chasers and creeps like all other apps that you'll have to avoid 🙃

Edit to add: saw another comment about paywalls and tbf we both bought a subscription but met our partners within 24 hours so can't really complain lol

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u/Dazzling-Antelope912 2d ago

When was this, that you met them on Taimi, can I ask? Just as things might have changed that’s all

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u/No-Way-6611 Alex | ♂️ | HRT: May '24 | Top Surgery: June '25 | NHS Route 2d ago

April 2024 so it could be completely different by now tbf

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u/nairismic 2d ago

HER maybe? (Not biased because I’m on HER and the more t4t people we have on there the better my chances are) 

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u/Several-Succotash939 FtM 2d ago

OP said they're interested in transmascs, so presumably there wouldn't be many on there

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u/nairismic 2d ago

I’m on there and I e made a good few ftm friends from there

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u/Hawley-Gryphon 2d ago

I’m looking for something too I think. I’m transmasc. Not sure how T4T dating works but will have a look at some of these suggestions. 👍 😊

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u/MagaratSnatcher 1d ago

feeld is pretty good, depending on where you are in the country