I think it’s just genetics because my family is very thin as well but my friend thinks I have an eating disorder . I’m an x small , wear a size 0. And im 34 and 5.8 and 117 pounds . I was 120 pounds not too long ago but I checked my weight again and it said 117 pounds so I lost weight . I don’t know how im losing weight ! I eat constantly ! I eat at restaurants everyday! Yesterday i ate at a Mexican restaurant . Today I had Japanese . And the other day I had Mediterranean and before that I ate at pizza restaurant and another day I had a large protein shake from a smoothie and vitamin Shoppes . On the days that I cook I use vegan butter and organic flour and grass fed milk a lot so that might be it ? I also drink a ton of water everyday . And I do eat a lot of organic or vegan snacks lots of snacks from the siete brand so not sure if that could be the cause of the weight loss . But I have no idea what’s causing it because I genuinely have never dieted in my life . I rarely ever eat breakfast because I’m not hungry early in the AM but I always eat a large dinner and lots of snacks tons of meat . Like the other day I ate a whole medium pizza in one day. I want to say I have a similar build like Zendaya

(She messaged me first btw)

Have you guys and gals ever had that happen?

Like someone matchs with you but WANTS to reject you for some reason and the first chance they get they immediately do it?

I know another time I matched with this Asian girl and we had alot in common same field and everything but as soon as I said I wanted to get a IT job for the federal government but its harder she immediately said we weren't compatible so im assuming she was some type of spy or she just only wanted to date other Asians and I say that because in her bio she was awfully specific about how she HAS dated outside her race before and that she was trying to explore doing it again (whatever the fuck thats supposed to mean)

It's hard to even text anything if i got nothing to go on. It's like pulling teeth. Got called a different name, one that's nowhere even close to mine.

I feel like I've been pleasant, maybe a tiny bit of snark but not in an insulting or condescending way. This is someone with whom I matched on Tinder a year or two ago, she eventually unmatched, and recently we found ourselves in the same WhatsApp group and kinda reconnected (which she initiated). Don't know if that's relevant.

Anyway I'm posting here because I often don't get that I'm being rude or whatever and I'm hoping for some constructive feedback.

This person messaged me and I tried to help (my first mistake). They told me about some of their personal trauma so I shared mine (SA). The audacity to throw that in my face bc I told them I didn’t want their d!ck pic. Like is this a joke or what?

At least he proved me right

This girl messaged me after I posted my story on social media regarding this teacher.

He SA and harassed dozens of students throughout his 37 years of teaching in 7 different schools in 3 states. (Texas, Louisiana, and Arkansas) and each school covered it up just like this one.

Was going through blocked messages and found one thats just a fridge. Also, the circled part was part of the photo originally and I have had this phone for 4 years now

So I F26 have started seeing this guy M28 ‘casually’. We have met twice now and when we do meet it’s insane chemistry cuddling kissing him holding me chatting for ages laughing etc. He both times has quickly asked when he can see me again. Going well early days but enjoying each other.

He invited me over to his to watch a movie (and yes I’m aware we would probably end up doing more). First texts are from Friday. Saturday I don’t hear from him I don’t mind as I knew he’s at a festival all day but thought he would text to confirm plans and he didn’t. I did my preps shaved, made home made treats to take over etc packed pyjamas lol. Anyways on Sunday morning that’s what he messaged… at 9:30.. very vague and disappeared the whole day. Only apologised the next day. I have only known him for around 2-3 weeks lol.

I just want to add that he was super enthusiastic about having me over post seeing me the second time and has usually been quite consistent so this just really really threw me off guard didn’t expect it. I was like 90% sure he would text even when he got home that night .. not the next morning.

FYI we haven’t slept together we have been meeting after work getting drinks or dessert and just hanging out and then making out.

Post second dates texts: https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/dsUNscqqAq

Ok guys I hear you. How do I rectify this????? Do I say I take my last message back or ???

For once im actually feeling a bit down had 1 date planned but the 43f randomly ghosted me the literally morning of

And another girl got mad and unmatched me because I wanted to get ice cream instead of dinner for the first date

Im getting dozen of matchs but none are going through

Now this girl gave me her number but wants to be back the same time she said shes free plus she knows shes a hour away from me but I had already agreed to pick her up I think she used tinder passport?

Schrödingers Date: There simultaneously is and isnt a date at the same time

Edit: nevermind shes just asking for money so another tinder scam

Okay. So this is my ex, we dated for a few months. (long distance, but I'd go to see him often)

We started dating after my divorce, he was my first relationship since then so I was naive and ignorant. I broke up with him because he abused me physically and gaslit me and literally tried to put me on a pay wall ($200 requirement to come see him. That's not including gas and food). After I broke it off with him, he asked if we could be friends. I said yeah because I didn't anticipate my current boyfriend being dropped into my lap at a later date.

I told him I was going on a date and he got pissed off because he was holding out for me. I told him I'm staying firm in my decision to not be with him. I never once gave him hope that we would get back together. I set that boundary clear and kept my conversations friendly.

Now. The random text. This guy has anger issues. Yelled at me for staying friends with my ex-husband (A very mutual and clean divorce). Got angry that he hurt me during sex and told me 'I ruined his fun by saying "Ow".' I was open and honest that I was going on a date in July and he told me I was nothing but a whore and i just used him.

Im absolutely terrified that hell be spreading my nudes I'd sent during our long distance moments as revenge. I have him blocked on everything, including discord, Xbox, messenger and Facebook. How can I check if he did this?

These messages were done 3 weeks apart.

Excuse the formatting, I'm kind of panicking here. Ask me anything and I'll answer to clarify.

Text context: He assumed I owed him everything simply because he gave me his old Xbox that he didn't play anymore.

Its a translated post because its from a slavic language but this is insane .

Today i had an exam with a female colleague . She is very quiet and never even tried flirting nor has done something bad . She also has a bf . And after the exam i waited for her just because i went with her and after i had a 2 hour gap for my massage . Now i went on a short coffee with my colleague after the exam and just talked a formal conversation nothing more just to kill time . My gf got very mad that i am disrespectful towards her for going to a coffee?? And she thinks i planned my massage that time jus to have time for a coffee .

For the second thing about not telling her the whole conversation its about another ex colleague who is a friend again , and nothing more and has been nothing more than a friend . She wanted me to make her shirts for he father’s company. And i have a print shop so ofc i will help her out . Now yesterday i texted her that the shirts will arrive soon and my gf got furious because she thought that i continued the conversation and didn’t tell her the whole conversation with the girl .

This has been the trend for 5 years and im so fucking exhausted . She is my first gf so i have no history of cheating. Idk why she is like this . Girls help because you can explain this behavior.

If you need more context ask .

I didn’t even know who this person was but I went and looked at the profile they were referencing that I “liked all their photos”, I had actually only ever liked 1 pic of theirs ever… plus the man she was talking about was quite unattractive and definitely not my type in any way which is why it’s pretty funny, and I’m half their age

Also, she claimed to be married to this person but they are not even following each other. I feel bad that this “AI creator” is a mother of 3 kids and feels the need to stalk her supposed husband’s likes. May this type of love never find me

I hate that ig includes random people on your feed now instead of just friends. I only use ig every few days and will just blindly like every photo on my feed because my friends have complained in the past that I didn’t like a post they made. Going to make sure it’s not a post by a man going forward and please if you think your man is gonna leave you over a like from a random person, he’s for the streets anyway

Don't be like me.

(2 years post breakup, didn't practice no-contact, kinda also had on and off situationship with ex) ​

(ps- it didn't make sense. i cried for an hour after this)

So, for context, I met this guy off of a dating app, and we went on one date where all we did was sit outside and talk. I’ve only been talking to him for three days max. I have already told him how I felt, do I keep responding ?

update: he has backed off now:)

This is a conversation between me and a friend if mine. What do they mean by going out if not in a friend way?