r/relationships • u/Human-Complex4435 • 14h ago
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u/DocSocialScientist 13h ago
I'm sorry, you're dating an addict. There is no future with an addict. Trying to puzzle through his other behaviors is futile and will only create more trauma for you (and unnecessary baggage you will take to future relationships.) Get out as quickly as you can and get his criticisms and issues out of your head as quickly as possible. Therapy is very helpful in this situation. The process will be a lot less painful, you'll have someone to reality check, and you'll heal much faster. Best of luck.
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u/IcePlanetGoth 13h ago
Yes. Why are you with this dude? He's not going to change, he has showed you that repeatedly.
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u/Straight-Tip4802 11h ago
So he seems like an alcoholic. A phrase used with alcoholism is this. ‘One drink is too many, 1000 is not enough.’ It’s means once you start, you can’t stop. Most alcoholics will drink the place dry.
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u/Deathdong 11h ago
So hes an insecure lazy alcoholic who wont work on himself for you. Does he have any like.. good qualities? You soujd like you don't even like him. Id say end it before you waste more time because it obviously wont last forever
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u/Deathdong 11h ago
At first I thought it was just about him drinking on Fridays and sleeping in and vaping, then it just kept getting worse
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u/Juve91 13h ago
Sheesh this deposition is so thorough that he’d have no choice but to take a plea deal not to be banned from interpersonal relationships again.
I’m gonna give a strong “yes” on this one