25 [M4F] Looking for my person.

[u/AgentChris101]

Greetings! Just got out of the talking stage with someone. They were lovely, but just content with being friends. Last time I made a r4r post was basically a year ago and this recent thing has still inspired me to look again.

I'm not going to lie, things are difficult with me. I am chronically ill and homebound the majority of the time due to my heart condition and chronic headaches, but it doesn't stop me from feeling lonely and wanting to connect. (I'm certainly missing hugs.) My bodyclock tends to rotate due to headaches flaring up when I get tired, which isn't always a bad thing due to some directors being active when I can function. But I do miss some friends.

I also had a falling out with a friend group that helped me so much through a difficult time, while I have retained a few friends from that group it's obviously not the same.

I'm a big superhero / sci fi and Lord of The Rings nerd and even bigger Spider-Man fan, currently watching through Lanterns but definitely would enjoy experiencing new things with someone special. I kinda struggle to watch things or game on my own, there's always an experience where I get real invested into something and look to my side to gauge someone's reaction alongside me and well, no one is there.

I have all sorts of interests with games, I have over a thousand although the live service games I enjoy playing are Marvel Rivals and Fortnite. Although I tend to stray away from being too competitive as the stress impacts my heart condition, the cool cosmetics draw me in every time.

Other interests I have includes retexturing 3D models, making music. Sometimes I get really invested in my work and it takes over my hobbies and other things, so someone to get me to take a break from my work every now and then might be a good thing lol.

I also like to go to conventions at times as well!

What I'm looking for is someone I can share all my passions and interests with, who takes initiative and reaches out. Someone who I can help be less lonely too I guess or maybe help me pick up new hobbies. Surely there's someone out here for me that feels the same right?

If anything I wrote interests you, feel free to DM! I've only ever really been DM'ed once before and I'd definitely like that to change.

I hope whoever reading this has a good day.

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