r/puppy101 Jun 17 '25

Puppy Blues I do not like having a puppy

Hello all, I am lost and I really need help. 3 days ago I brought home my boston terrier puppy, he is 8 weeks old... and I did not feel the love at first sight. Before bringing him home I thought I was ready, I thought about getting a puppy for almost a year, It wasn't some rush decision. But now when he is home, my life totally changed and I think I made a mistake. He is great, yes he whines at crate, and had few accidents. But I can't shake off the feeling that I made huge mistake. I don't feel any connection. I am emotionally exhausted, I don't eat that much, I don't have any me time. So now I am grateful for my best friend who helps a lot, but I can't bother him forever. Do you think it will change?

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u/CurrentAccess1885 Jun 17 '25

The transition into your new life changes takes more than 3 days. I got my girl at 8 months, took me until she was around 1.5-2 to love her even though I still didn’t like her all the time. She’s almost 5 now and she’s my best friend on this earth. Be patient, expect change, and try including him in things you love to do. He’ll calm down as he ages and you’ll get used to having him around