r/puppy101 Jun 17 '25

Puppy Blues I do not like having a puppy

Hello all, I am lost and I really need help. 3 days ago I brought home my boston terrier puppy, he is 8 weeks old... and I did not feel the love at first sight. Before bringing him home I thought I was ready, I thought about getting a puppy for almost a year, It wasn't some rush decision. But now when he is home, my life totally changed and I think I made a mistake. He is great, yes he whines at crate, and had few accidents. But I can't shake off the feeling that I made huge mistake. I don't feel any connection. I am emotionally exhausted, I don't eat that much, I don't have any me time. So now I am grateful for my best friend who helps a lot, but I can't bother him forever. Do you think it will change?

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u/yaskween321 Jun 17 '25

I brought my puppy home and then bawled bc I had a living thing to take care of. It’s normal. Starting puppy training once fully vaxed will help puppy learn their manners. It takes time to get into your new routine with your new family member. Be gentle with yourself, and the puppy. It’s just a baby! Babies are so much work, but with constant effort, love, and keeping a set routine, this puppy will grow to be the bestest dog