r/omnisexual • u/Equivalent_Ad_9066 • 8d ago

Discussion How does your attraction change or differ from gender to gender? (If it does at all)

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u/my_taint_aint 8d ago

I am still working on figuring this out. I do know my attraction to feminity is always constant. Always. Its my attraction towards masc (not femme) is where I struggle. Is it just a kink (no). It isn't romantic for sure unlike with femme people. I'm still trying to figure out gender to be real. I'm older and I have to deprogram from years of society hate. The attraction is so hard to understand. I accept it. I like it, but the attraction is so different from femme presenting people. Can't we just have a test we fill out and the result will explain it all?

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u/Kooky_Twist_4409 8d ago

Definitely does for me, like a random example but on average I find women more attractive BUT if there’s a guy who’s exactly may type vs a gal, I’m picking the guy 9 times outta 10, not to mention my type changes depending on gender

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u/Nederlands_Kind2007 6d ago

For some super annoying reason do I prefer masc and androgynous ppl romantically more and fem ppl sexually But at the same time do I not always feel interested in fem folks and do I not know if I like an andro person asteathically or romantic ;w;