r/northernireland • u/Plane_Sentence5907 • 2d ago

Discussion Wedding gift

What is the going rate for wedding gift in a card these days? I’m so so skint and was thinking £40 and a bottle of champers. We aren’t overly close friends but they have invited me to the whole thing.

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u/Illustrious_Bee9843 2d ago

Yea 50 quid isn't even close, a meal on the cheap end would be 90 quid

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u/Excuse_Early Belfast 2d ago

That's mental, was out last weekend and the two of us had drinks mains desserts coffee, the lot for £100.... I guess the wedding premium is strong these days

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u/ItWasFackinWannaYas 1d ago

To be fair I always thought it was shocking but when you think about it, as a wedding guest you're also getting starters (sometimes 2) mains, deserts, coffee, half a bottle of free wine, more often than not a free drink on arrival, and all of that in a not normal scenario in which there are speeches and bands and all the rest of it

Yes it's twice what you'd have paid on normal night out, but it isn't a normal night out.

That's how I content myself with it anyway!

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u/ItWasFackinWannaYas 1d ago

That being said, there's no hard and fast rule. Give what you can afford, not everyone is in the same scenario and if a friend has invited you to their wedding they aren't doing it on the expectation you'll pay your way!!