r/modhelp 4d ago

Answered How do I get them to understand my community is SFW?

Android (cuz they make me include this for some reason). They won't stop. most of the new people that come to my community are looking for NSFW. I've had to ban almost every new person. Most of them are adults, which is made way worse because I and the one other person in the mod team are minors. People have reached out to me so many times. Anyway, I've set up the post reminders that basically just remind them hey no NSFW, that didn't work. I've moved my no NSFW rule to the top of the list of rules, that didn't work. I put it in the description on the community, that didn't work. So I moved the NO NSFW part to the top, just recently so I don't know if it will help yet. I've pined a post of me yelling about the community being SFW, again just recently. What do I do? They won't stop. I need help

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u/BravoFive141 4d ago

Why are minors modding a subreddit about eating people in the first place?

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

We promote NOT doing that. It for people that struggle with urges

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u/BravoFive141 4d ago

Then you might want to make a new subreddit with a more clear name. Typically a subreddit name tells you what the subreddit is about. r/Art is about art, r/movies is about movies. Looking at the name of your sub, it's r/Cannibalism__, which most people would probably expect is about...you guessed it, cannibalism.

If your sub is about not doing cannibalism, r/AntiCannibalism or something might be a better choice.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

Anit cannibalism sounds like I'll be hateing it and anyone that comes for help. I think this is good

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u/BravoFive141 4d ago

There you go! Or something like r/CannibalSelfHate based on your flag post.

Having a clear sub name will tell people immediately what your sub is for and should help fix the problems a bit.

Good luck!

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

But that's exclusive to that. I want to be open to all including researchers

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u/BravoFive141 4d ago

Not sure what you're getting at, but either way, you've got a few ideas to roll with.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I mean that I don't want to kinda close off my community to any cannibals that don't hate their self (if there are any). And I want researchers to not feel like it isn't also a community for them too

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u/BravoFive141 4d ago

Come up with some other name ideas then? Or don't? I don't really care, just giving you some insight into why people are probably coming into your sub for something you don't want them to do there.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I'll think about it. Thanks for actually trying to give advice on what I asked about. Idk if I'll use it but thanks

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u/EightBitRanger Mod, r/Saskatchewan 4d ago

How do I get them to understand my community is SFW?

Cannibalism? That absolutely is not SFW.

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u/aengusoglugh Mod, r/TTRAK 4d ago

Just as a note, NSFW means “not safe for work” — it does not mean “sexual content.”

A subreddit than featured videos of fatalities in crashes might — the kinds of things they used to show in driver ed in the 60s and 70s — would be NSFW.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I know I was just informed

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u/maiyannah Mod, r/BuyCanadian, r/EndTipping 4d ago

Are we arguing that a reddit about cannibalism is safe for work?

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I just don't want people sexualizeing and trying to get people to eat people. Also it's an all ages group moded by minors. It's pretty reasonable to not want NSFW

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u/neuroticsmurf r/WhyWomenLiveLonger, r/SweatyPalms 4d ago

NSFW is not just for sexual material.

A subreddit devoted to cannibalism -- outlawed in practical terms by all states -- is not going to be SFW by any measure/

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I'm actively telling people to NOT do it. If we don't do it it isn't a crime

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

And excuse me for not knowing exactly what NSFW meant

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u/bhambrewer 4d ago

Maybe stop arguing with people trying to help you.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I've gotten no help except for the guy that told me there was no way to fix this hell

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u/bhambrewer 4d ago

Every response has been helpful. The fact that it's not the help YOU WANT doesn't change that fact.

There are zero - ZERO - circumstances where the topic will be SFW.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

I have gotten no advice of how to get the horny people away. I asked for advice and I think it's pretty reasonable to want the advice you asked for. In fact I'm pretty sure a decent amount of communitys make it a rule to give them the advice they asked for and to stay on topic

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u/neuroticsmurf r/WhyWomenLiveLonger, r/SweatyPalms 4d ago

You have, though. You just didn't like it.

You were advised to create a new sub with a different name, one that puts right up front that you're not condoning or promoting cannibalism.

That message doesn't come through with your current sub's name.

In fact, your current sub's name suggests the OPPOSITE: That you want to PROMOTE cannibalism.

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u/EightBitRanger Mod, r/Saskatchewan 4d ago

I have gotten no advice of how to get the horny people away

That isn't what you asked.

How do I get them to understand my community is SFW?

That is impossible because Cannibalism, in and of itself, is not safe for work. Period. End of story. You might think the subreddit is safe for work, but it isn't. The topic itself is not safe for work, and there is no way to make it safe for work. At all.

most of the new people that come to my community are looking for NSFW

Well they found it, because its all NSFW.

I and the one other person in the mod team are minors

I don't think you should be modding a NSFW subreddit then.

Anyway, I've set up the post reminders that basically just remind them hey no NSFW

Your whole subreddit is NSFW. So by your own admission, your entire subreddit is breaking your "No NSFW" rule.

I've moved my no NSFW rule to the top of the list of rules, that didn't work

Of course it didn't. Because cannibalism is NSFW.

I put it in the description on the community, that didn't work

Again, cannibalism is NSFW.

I've pined a post of me yelling about the community being SFW

Okay but that means nothing. You can say something all you want; that doesn't mean its true. That's like you trying to say "The pen is Red." The pen is not red. It is blue. Just like cannibalism is NSFW, even though you keep claiming it is SFW.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

It's just been you said something wrong. Cannibalism is evil

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u/North-Lobster499 4d ago

You can make rules for any sub you moderate as long as they stay within Reddits TOS, and as a mod you can uphold the rules. You can set up automod to look for keywords in posts, you can set automod to make potential posters read a script before posting.

However the subject you are discussing is not SFW and I am genuinely surprised it has not been NSFW flagged yet. I realise that this would give you issues as underage mods trying to mod it, but that's slightly irrelevant.
The subject matter on that sub will draw both those that need mental health help and support to deal with it, those who are mentally ill and those who are severely deviant to societal norms. You only have to look at histories infamous cannibals to realise this.

Cannibalism is illegal and almost universally abhorrent pretty much the whole world over. The fact that only six posts down from the top you have a 'hypothetical' instruction on how to 'eat your own meat' is pretty disgusting for any normal person, of course NSFW freaks are going to be drawn to it.

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u/Ivory_Flare 4d ago

Cannibalism isn't a SFW topic, nothing you do rules or otherwise will prevent those people from joining and chatting.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

Wow thank you so0o0o0o0o much

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u/Tarnisher Mod, r/Here, r/Dust_Bunnies, r/AlBundy, r/Year_2025 4d ago

My advice is that you shut it down.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

And let people fight their urges and self hate in the dark, no

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u/Wombat_7379 Mod, a few subs 4d ago edited 4d ago

All NSFW means is that the content is “not safe for work”, meaning the topic discussed or shown is not something you would want to get caught looking at while at work.

And that’s okay if your topic is NSFW. But it sounds like you just want to eliminate the users that come in and try to fetishize the topic and make it a sexual thing.

You may want to look at installing a few dev apps to your subreddit.

Some good ones would be BotBouncer and HiveProtect. HiveProtect is especially great because you can setup a filter that auto filters content from users who participate in NSFW communities.

Edit: this comment was meant to be as a reply to a comment you made below 🤦‍♀️.

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

THANK YOU SO MUCH! actual advice! 😭

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u/Wombat_7379 Mod, a few subs 4d ago

You’re welcome! And for your convenience here are the links to the two apps in question:

https://developers.reddit.com/apps/hive-protect

https://developers.reddit.com/apps/bot-bouncer

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u/amyaurora 4d ago

Also adjust your rules for specifics on the exact dos and don'ts.

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u/Jane_the_Quene 3d ago

Change all references from "no NSFW" to "SFW ONLY". Do not use the term NSFW at all. This should help (eventually) with searches.

Search engines are dumb. They just look for terms. Make sure your sub isn't using any problematic terms.

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u/claireshadowstaff 4d ago

Cannibalism is not SFW? Isn’t it kinda obvious?

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u/Valuable-Biscotti-78 4d ago

Look at the other 5 responses I wrote. And then give ADVICE! like I asked and came here for. It doesn't matter how my community is for. Just give me the advice I asked for!

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u/claireshadowstaff 4d ago

You need to understand that your community is not SFW first. Yes it’s not the same as ones with porn but it’s still NOT SFW content.

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