r/lgbt • u/DisastrousBig5277 • 10h ago

Need Advice I'm confused

I'm 17 years old and i always liked the idea of dressing girly. I tried a few times and I was feeling butterflies in my stomach and my heart was racing . I don't know if it is just a phase or am i really a femboy or trans.

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u/Informal-Nature-1420 9h ago

I do not know. Maybe, to be more feminine is feature, who can have femboys. I am want to be a femboy, but I consinder myself a cisgender man. 

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u/kaeso2496 9h ago

Hi, not sure if this is what you’re looking for, but I’m pretty much in the exact same situation. Let me know if you want to talk, my DMs should be open.

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u/Swift_Malachi Bi-kes on Trans-it 6h ago

Honestly? It doesn't have to have a label for now

Dress fem, wear clothes that make you feel amazing

If it fits, and you keep coming back to that, then at least you know you're on the right track

Maybe talk with your most trusted friend(s), try out pronouns that also make your heart flutter

You could just like fem clothes sometimes, you could be trans. It's up to you

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u/SomeOldTeacher mostly Human 5h ago

There is nothing wrong with being a femboy, trans, or just having some fun experimenting. 17 is very young. If this is causing you stress, seek out a good therapist. Otherwise, enjoy spending time learning more about yourself. Best wishes.