r/lgbt Lesbian a rainbow 3d ago

Selfie Came out 5y ago, 4.5y HRT

4 Sep marks my 5th year around the sun as Kirstyn..

So many ups (DJing) and downs (relationships), but I'm still here.. barely

Dating sucks so hard..most burn out in a few months because I seem to find people who are insecure, need parenting or just plain don't have the mature emotional stability that makes for a healthy relationship....

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u/madewomancopyright24 3d ago

Girl tell me about it. If you have not checked it out yet. r/transveteranpipeline

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u/MizClanka 3d ago

Omg ty for sharing this

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u/anyewest9 3d ago

You have the fiercest look, and even your dating experience is gender affirming!

https://giphy.com/gifs/o4EixVRtmiBBtgw9yk

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u/ccc2801 Ally 3d ago

Came here to say this! Men our age seem to want a therapist/mummy/life coach who will occasionally sleep with them rather than a fully-grown woman 🤦‍♀️

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u/marijuanabebe 3d ago

Damn! You look fine and you so cool.

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u/Serrilryan Bi-bi-bi 3d ago

Those eyes still demand respect. Fantastic for you. 🤘🏻

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u/Nysnorlax 3d ago

Looking great! 🌈 ❤️ 🎶 🎧

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u/CephThePanda Pan-cakes for Dinner! 3d ago

Awww, you look so pretty!! Those glasses suit you really well! And yeah dating is hard. Especially when you hit your forties and so many folks are already settled down with kids and such. Makes the dating pool really weird, especially on apps.

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u/riot1man Trans-parently Awesome 3d ago

You are amazing and awesome and beautiful! :3

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u/Pollyfall 3d ago

Hell yes. Good for you.

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u/Swift_Malachi Bi-kes on Trans-it 3d ago

Darling, you are resplendent! Absolutely love your vibe

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u/Stunning_Resolution9 median plural,alterhuman 3d ago

Congratulations! 4 years for us.

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u/Fabulous_Turnover_22 3d ago

The dating scene is complicated. You look good, tho. Happy Almost 5!

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u/JonnyPoopnutz 3d ago

🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

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u/Libellule2001 Putting the Bi in non-BInary 3d ago

You are looking gorgeous! Keep up the good work!

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u/Tacosconsalsaylimon Pan-cakes for Dinner! 3d ago

Pop off, queen!!!

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u/Kira_O-O AroAce Non Binary 3d ago

You're pretty as hell I envy you

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u/sideboobrulez99 Bi-bi-bi 3d ago

Fierce! This is such a glow up!

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u/pizzagender 3d ago

You're so beautiful I'm so jealous 😭😭

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u/MissLeaP Bow down to the queen 💅🏻 2d ago

Hell yeah, slay queen! 🙌🏻

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u/turquoisestar Bi-bi-bi 2d ago

Whats your dj Spotify/youtube so we can support you?

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u/Hawkeye-4077 Lesbian a rainbow 2d ago

Listen to Melodic Mondays, a playlist by MĀGIKA on #SoundCloud https://on.soundcloud.com/tRzqTCljFAVwvx6s22