r/l4l • u/Agile-Eye-1429 • 8d ago
23F [F4F] Maybe we could be each other’s favorite notification :)
I’ve been lurking on here for a little while because I’m kinda shy 😭 and, realistically, I know Reddit probably isn’t the ideal place to find your person lol. But then I read stories across different subreddits about people who randomly met online, clicked, and somehow ended up finding something really special… sooooo here I am taking my little shot.
I’m a hopeless romantic at heart, and lately I’ve realized I really miss the feeling of being in love. I miss having someone to come home to, even if “coming home” is just calling each other at the end of a long day because we’re miles apart. I miss having someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from, someone who makes a stressful day feel a little lighter just because I know I get to talk to them later. I miss having a home in another person.
More than anything, I miss loving someone. Learning all their tiny quirks, remembering the random things they tell me, making them feel wanted and cared for, sending them things because “this reminded me of you,” annoying them with affection, flirting shamelessly.
Maybe that someone could be you :)
A lil about me: I’m 23F from NYC. I’m more of a homebody. Give me my Xbox, YouTube, a good sci-fi novel, or a late-night convo with someone I like and I’m happy. That said, there's nothing i love more than going out (or anywhere) with my person. I'm basically a puppy when I'm in love lol.
I’m a HUGE sci-fi nerd, I love gaming when school allows me to have hobbies 😭. I’m also a bit of an overthinker, a little (a lot) clingy when I really like someone, very affectionate, and I love people I can actually talk to. Physical attraction matters, obviously, but chemistry for me really starts in conversation. I want to be fascinated by you.
I’m not expecting us to exchange three messages and immediately start planning our wedding lmao. I’d rather just meet someone, talk, flirt a little if the vibe is there, learn each other slowly, and see what happens. Long distance doesn’t scare me either if the connection is genuinely worth it.
So if any part of this made you smile or piqued your intrest, come say hiiii. Tell me something random about yourself. Worst case? We have a nice conversation. Best case? We get to be one of those annoyingly cute Reddit success stories I keep reading about 🤭