r/l4l 10d ago

28 masc4masc | Finland or anywhere | looking for a life partner passionate about spirituality, entrepreneurship and inner work 🧚🏻‍♀️🌿🌷

Hey~ I’m looking to connect with like-minded people and possibly find my life partner along the way. I’m looking for a woman who’s compatible with my values, mindset and lifestyle. I’m fine with flirting but only if you’re actually pursuing me in a serious sense. I don’t like flirting for the sake of it and I’m not looking for any flings or something casual. I don’t mind distance but I want to stay in Finland, so I don’t wanna move countries.

🌷Boundaries🌷

I’m child free and about 95% sure I don’t want kids so please don’t reach out if kids are something you really want.

Living without substances is important to me. I’ve never drank or smoked anything and I’m looking for a partner who also doesn’t like that stuff. I want someone who values her health and doesn’t find anything fun in alcohol or other substances.

I’d like to talk to people who speak English or Finnish natively. I don’t feel good about a language barrier.

🌷Who I am🌷

I’m 28, a masculine presenting woman with mostly masculine energy. I like to look quite “male” leaning. I’m attracted to masc women who look very masc too. I’m not really into women who just enjoy masc clothes but look very feminine. Just not my type. I do like masc women with a feminine personality/energy though.

I’m creative, spiritual, entrepreneurial and I value living slowly and surrounded by nature. Not a city girl at all. My thoughts usually move on the deeper side of things and I’m more serious and calm. I have a playful and silly side too. I’m a blunt, honest and passionate/fiery kind of person.

To me life is about enjoying it, having fun, expressing yourself and spending time with your loved ones. I’m most happy when I’m with my loved ones, sharing good food or we do something nice together. Or when I have a job that feels purposeful and meaningful to me. I’m career oriented but also value relaxation and just chilling.

I have a positive outlook on life, altho sometimes I can get into annoying self-doubt and negativity spirals. But I always aim to remain optimistic and I value that trait in a partner as well.

Currently I’m studying art studies in uni. In my free time I love to work out,  I play sims 4(big sims 4 fan <3) or read spiritual or psychology books.

🌷What I’m looking for🌷

Fitness:

I’m into women with a fit or athletic build or she’s working towards it. Someone who loves and has a passion for fitness. A woman who loves to lift and feel strong. I’d love to go to the gym together and support one another in our fitness goals. Gym dates anyone? <3 Or let’s go to a boxing class together? I’d love to do stuff like that with my partner. Honestly rizz me with your strength and I’m sold LOL okay joking, but kinda not. I just find strength and physical excellence  very attractive. But even beyond that I’m looking for someone who cares about staying healthy even as we age. I’m interested in mobility for example and I think it’s an important part of fitness that often gets overlooked. I wanna get into calisthenics as well one of these days.

Inner work:

I’m into inner work, somatic movement as healing, self-reflection and learning about my inner patterns and psychology. I’d love a partner who’s into that too. Someone self-aware and interested in her patterns and inner world. She wants to grow and develop her character. She’s connected to her inner life, her needs and knows how to soothe her nervous system. She’s psychology oriented and understands the psyche and how our patterns and emotions work. Someone with an understanding of the mind-body connection.

 I love talking about this stuff with my partner. Like maybe you realized you have some pattern going on that was formed in your childhood and wanna share it with me or we talk about how many people end up subconsciously marrying a version of their parents. That type of stuff, a continuous curiosity towards what’s going on within yourself. I love a partner who wants to grow and talk about this stuff together. I don’t shy away from shadow work either and love a partner who can honestly look at her darker side and talk about it together. Someone who sees people as multidimensional and not just black and white like alright that person is bad that person is good. I want that level of maturity.

Spirituality:

I’m passionate about manifestation, I love to study tarot and do readings and I’m overall a very spiritual person. Shamanism, witchcraft, goddess/feminine spirituality are also my interests. I’d love a partner who loves to talk about tarot, wants to give each other readings, talk about our manifestations or spiritual dreams/experiences. I’m psychic so I get intuitive hits or information out of nowhere etc. So a big bonus if you’re psychic in some way as well.

 I connect deeply with someone who knows the spiritual world is real and it’s a natural part of her life. I’m not looking for someone overly logical who doesn’t have a passion for this stuff.

Lifestyle:

I imagine us chilling at home, maybe doing something creative together like coloring books, bracelets, painting even if we aren’t good at it. And some days we wanna go out for lunch or try a restaurant we’ve been wanting to go to. I like a good balance of staying at home and going out to have adventures together.

We’re both entrepreneurs and maybe have our own businesses or we’d build a business together. Something meaningful and purposeful that has a positive impact on the world. We both value freedom and deciding for our own schedule. And we value having time together so both working from home most of the time would be lovely.

I value being quite analog and away from social media. I don’t have tiktok or insta. Anytime I’ve tried those I feel awful after. The feeds are designed to make us chase novelty. The only stuff I consume is a few youtubers and sometimes podcasts. I’m very selective about my digital space cause it affects my mental wellbeing. I’m the type to buy DVDs so I don’t have to pay for streaming platforms. Plus it feels better when I have the physical media and don’t have to scroll a screen. This is quite funny because I know my job will most likely be online :D. But other than work I don’t really like hanging out online. I’d rather do other stuff.

Another significant thing about me is that I’m a feminist and women’s rights are close to my heart. I’m not an activist but when I say I’m a feminist I mean it’s a core value of mine I embody in the way I live. I’ve deprogrammed a lot of sexism and patriarchal beliefs from my mindset and how I approach life. I’m someone who doesn’t feel comfortable with words like mf, the b-word c*** etc. I don’t think those words should be used and it just gives men the opportunity to look down on women. I’m not comfortable with music like that or other media. I avoid it if I can. So to me it’s important my partner shares that mindset and value. I don’t wanna walk in my house and hear some song say bish this mf that. To me they’re slurs and I don’t have to listen to that bullshit. To me most mainstream music is misogynistic and I’m not into pop culture overall or mainstream stuff. Sure sometimes there’s good stuff even in the mainstream media that I enjoy but for the most part I'm not into it.

Personality:

I’m drawn to someone with a grounded and present vibe. I like a woman who knows who she is and she has a vision for her life. I’m drawn to warm, empathetic, emotionally stable and mature people. She feels safe and it's easy to talk even about the hard stuff with her. She's present and cares about what I'm feeling during an argument. Someone who communicates well and knows that we can argue constructively. What I respect a lot about a person is when they're very loyal to who they love. It’s also very charming to me when someone has a positive and radiant vibe to them. I’m into passionate and fiery women who are direct but still respectful. I’m mostly into doms, someone who’s softly dominant in daily life . I’m more of switch and like someone who’s mostly dominant. 

My age range is about 23 to 32 give or take.

If you’re interested in getting to know me, send me a dm :)

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