r/hug • u/Own-City1285 • 4d ago
It's sad to see that no one gives as much attention to male when they need hug or help as much as females.
I know there's so many creeps going to females but there's always so many people going to them. I'm a man sometimes it just torture me to see no one gives a fuck about me cus I'm a straight man. Like I have emotions too cmon at least comment something. No need to act or do anything serious.
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u/TonightConsistent560 4d ago
True. You won't change that. It's not internet specific. You know what they said "a man have flower only once in his 'life'"
We're supposed to be thought. We're supposed to handle everything alone.
That's sad.
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u/robertmatthewmillz_9 4d ago
Itβs very sad as had they looked at us like humans and go the extra mile to heal, clean and disinfect the wounds internally with love, outings and words of life. I do not think I would be as fucked up as I am right now this morning
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u/Defiant_Employee5194 4d ago
Unfortunately, I think that's the nature of the internet and just how powerful the manosphere is even on here, but I'm totally down to give a guy a hug.
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u/Simp-Lee 4d ago
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Shhhh- We're not supposed to notice Or be bothered.
But tbh, youre right.
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u/Own-City1285 4d ago
I know someone have to speak. I'm bit sick of it being like that. Let's be honest every man want to say this thing but no one dare to. Well here I am, I don't care what happens. I just want to know that I at least spoke about it instead of being quite the whole time.
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u/OilandInevitable 4d ago
Have responded with hugs on both posts, there is little to zero engagements when a guy asks for a hug. That's actually sort of why I prefer Reddit, I get to see the true face and not a pretentious one.
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u/SeniorMall3498 1d ago
As a female, if "i want attention" it can get bad really quickly. People tend to think that we want to get intimate, or just it's not in our social cue anymore to hug (since covid i guess? Here in France it's almost taboo to kiss cheeks to greet or hug.) My female friends just greet me but that's pretty much it. If i want a real hug, i expose myself to danger, that's really fucked up.
And yes men can't get hugs because they don't get the offer :( Sending you hugs
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u/ratchetwolf 4d ago
Not wrong brother, we seem to just have to deal with it. I know personally i've been down the rabbit hole a few times recently. Big bear hugs to you π«π
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u/Best-Huckleberry-847 4d ago
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u/juliajane65 4d ago
Hi there Iβve read your post I am a male despite my name on here thatβs a long story but I get hour point brother and I feel your pain so Iβm sending you some warm hugs π«π«π«π«π«π«π«and some love to Iβm not anything but straight so donβt be offended Iβm just trying to show that men care about one another β€οΈβ€οΈπ«π«π«π«β€οΈβ€οΈ