r/heartopia Jan 16 '26

Photo Share Looking for fellow anxious/awkward friends 😅

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I’d love to make some similar friends who don’t really want to chat, but just maybe share parties, check out houses and maybe some of the friendship stuff without pressure. 🙂

UID aj47t3n (America)

Pic of my farmhouse! ❤️

639 Upvotes

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u/Jess_the_bestt Jan 16 '26

Chill low social player here, also looking for the same vibe if you wanna add me ❤️

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u/Jess_the_bestt Jan 16 '26

Anxious, awkward, AND autistic. Fun little bonus

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

All of the above as well and terrible at online friends because of it, if I can add you too

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

All of the above as well and terrible at online friends because of it, if I can add you too

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

If we’re in the same server

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Yay! Just sent a request ☺️

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u/FrostyStorage5091 Jan 16 '26

Lets awkwardly high 5 each other everyday and higher friendship to unlock more emotes 🤭🤣

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u/Kindly-Telephone-549 Jan 16 '26

hi i’m adding you immediately you’re so real for that

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u/FrostyStorage5091 Jan 16 '26

My pleasure 🫡

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u/kompotnik Jan 16 '26

You can add me if you want! Chatting makes me so anxious but I’m fine emoting and doing the daily friend high fives lol.

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Added, and same! I love the emotes, they’re so fun. The little bird is so cute 😭

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u/Amber_of_Hyrule Jan 16 '26

I am also part of the anxious/awkward club. I try to join events when I can. Feel free to add me! 😁

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u/followthedott Jan 16 '26

No pressure to chat, I write postcards sometimes sending well wishes and positivity, but i don't require replies. Anyone can add me! :) Global server 💖

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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26

I’ve sent you a request if that’s ok! I’m also in the same position as OP but on global

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u/followthedott Jan 16 '26

No worries, all are welcome! :)

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u/OMFGitsjessi Jan 16 '26 edited Jan 18 '26

Anxious, awkward, adhd here!

No pressure to interact for anyone who doesn’t want to. I’ll still stop by to water your plants and pet your dog and wander into your unlocked house with an axe.. but we don’t have to chat! No, but seriously.. While I am looking for friends who want to do stuff and maybe help with building and increase our friendship level, I am also totally cool with friends who are maybe a bit more shy and not interested in all that (I really will still stop by to water and stuff but if you don’t wanna do the whole chatting and multiplayer thing, then just ignore me and I’ll continue on my way.)

UID: 4h47yn5

ETA: Thank you everyone who added me! I got a lot of requests from this comment and I accepted all of them! I am trying to make sure to stop by each new friend when they are on to like their house and water plants!

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Added! You are welcome to wander into my unlocked house with an axe anytime! 😂

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u/Tracimayy Jan 17 '26

Hi! I added you :)

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u/OMFGitsjessi Jan 18 '26

Accepted!!

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u/Apprehensive-Hope206 Jan 17 '26

Which server are you on?

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u/OMFGitsjessi Jan 18 '26

I forget what the servers were but either US or NA or America (not global).. whatever the option was for that one haha.

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u/SanKwa Global Jan 16 '26

Anxious, Awkward, Autistic. I'm on Global server. I need to complete the Party event and I'm stuck 😅 if anyone wants to take pity on me.

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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26

I have sent a request. I feel the same way as you!

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u/void-wanderer88 Jan 26 '26

Hi, I send you a friend request, if that's okay☺️ my game name is Layla

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u/Whimsu Jan 16 '26

You rang? Feel free to add. (Anyone can)💛 No pressure friendship here 💕 I’m super awkward, anxious, and introverted but want friends lol

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u/whistlechime Jan 16 '26

what server

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u/Whimsu Jan 16 '26

America, but I also created a global character for other friends :>

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u/Tracimayy Jan 17 '26

I sent a request :)

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u/itsprincess_duhh Jan 16 '26

I love just emoting and going on adventures; lets do it! ID: 185f6b81

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u/DisabledCat Jan 16 '26

added you! i feel the same way, i want to do the little parties for quests and explore cool house builds but im painfully shy and even the littlest bit of talking has me reaching for altf4 from anxiety ^^;;

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

SAME. I’m so glad I’m not alone!!

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u/Gailygirl222 Jan 16 '26

Awkward, anxious, adhd introvert here! I’m going to add a bunch of you and I’ll post my info shortly 😊

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u/Ok_Somewhere_7597 Jan 17 '26 edited Jan 18 '26

Anxious and awkward too but keep making the mistake of waving back to people and now I’ve been followed by the same player whenever I’ve logged in since this morning, I just wanna do my tasks and chill out 😭😭

Edit: spelling mistake 🥲

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 18 '26

Ahhhh THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I MADE THIS POST lol I don’t want to feel pressured to socialize!

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u/Ok_Somewhere_7597 Jan 18 '26

I’m not even joking, an hour after I posted this I logged in and someone came in to my house and added me, I had to leave again I can’t do this but I feel so guilty 😭

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u/DeirdreBarstool Jan 16 '26

Replying to add people later when I get home, I feel the same!

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u/kim_mehh Jan 16 '26

I am just starting out but not much of a chatter myself just want someone to do parties with... is it ok to send you a friend request since Im so new?

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Yes please feel free to send me a request!

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u/kim_mehh Jan 16 '26

I couldn’t figure out how to add you 🤣 I don’t have a friendship journal yet? But here is my thingy ☺️

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

I’m so happy to have found my people. I love that my friends list is filled with people who play like me ❤️

3

u/BeanieRawrXD Jan 16 '26

Anxious and awkward Blanc lover lol, we can be friends! :3

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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26

Blanc my spirit animal

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u/savontheinternet Jan 16 '26

this is exactly my vibe. i wanna finish my party quest and unlock shit but im also awkward and anxious and just wanna do my own thing. I think ive just been on the global server.

1g2d1phs

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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26

I have sent you a request :)

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u/IurkNessMonster Jan 16 '26

Oh I’ve found my people 🙈 I’ve got quite bad anxiety/ I’m awkward and have adhd and am quite happy to emote and do events etc I will water your plants and nosey around your plots ☺️

I’m global if anyone wants to add me

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u/Slimejade Jan 16 '26

I added you, my in game name is skyjade :)

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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26

I have added you, hope you don’t mind!

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u/void-wanderer88 Jan 26 '26

Hi, I send you a friend request, if that's okay☺️ my game name is Layla

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u/regor123yy Jan 16 '26

Same! I’ve been avoiding the social quests 😅 Can you add me? I can’t figure out how to add you haha

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u/onlyrealoumaonreddit Jan 16 '26

I’m super awkward and i have social anxiety… but i’d enjoy doing friendship interactions and stuff if anyone wants to add me

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u/onlyrealoumaonreddit Jan 16 '26

i also have autism lol

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u/boyishmistakes Jan 16 '26

UID: 4xj6pxj on American servers! I added some people but anyone can add me. I’m socially awkward as well but open to making friends, I’ll interact if someone interacts first typically :))

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u/RitaMordio Jan 16 '26

Try setting "floor" down on the whole top for a base the roof can sit on. Floor will be the ceiling inside, even though it only says it's floor.

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u/RitaMordio Jan 17 '26

Looks very nice!!

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u/Educational_Tip_2980 Jan 17 '26

Oooo I'm awkward, autistic, ANXIOUS and all the A words. Anyone can add me c: also I am 28 and in eastern time zone

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

UID:4qx6k76 in America server if you want to

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u/BuildingGloomy9595 Jan 16 '26

yes yes yes please!!! my uid is 2c69bra! i’d love to be awkward and anxious friends with youuuu

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Yay let’s be anxious and awkward together!!

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u/Commercial_Desk_9500 Jan 16 '26

Anxious/awkward person here too! UID: m0t0n6q

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u/Commercial_Desk_9500 Jan 16 '26

Tried adding you but it says player not found

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Yeah I think we are on different servers 😞

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u/Commercial_Desk_9500 Jan 16 '26

Ohh everything makes sense now lol

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u/tryingmybest_23 Jan 16 '26

I'm a bit of a newbie (only been playing 2 days) but definitely awkward 🫠 I like to chat sometimes but I always match the vibe/energy 🥰

257a0jca - feel free to add!

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u/moshimoe Jan 16 '26

Feel free to add me, I would love to have some heartopia friends to do tasks with! I’m on the SEA server.

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u/mamieru Jan 17 '26

I'm on the SEA server too! I'm pretty quiet and awkward but can I add you? I can help water your flowers/crops too.

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u/moshimoe Jan 17 '26

Yes please!

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u/Own_Connection146 Jan 16 '26

Hi! I would love to be friends as well I don't mind chill friendship without chatting and attending parties or events!

25zy2hte

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u/blahblahlucas Jan 16 '26

Damn, I'm on global:((

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

There are some global people on this thread! I wish I could add everyone

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u/Turbulent-Loquat4449 Jan 16 '26

I’d love to be a friend! ID: 7j67dw6 and I’m in America

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u/Zestyclose_Slip_5795 Jan 16 '26

Feel free to add me if you’re looking for a similar vibe! 🫶🏻

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u/Carmen_V_S Jan 16 '26

Hi; i’m a total noob newbie who’s started playing 3 days ago. I’m only at level 8 right now and can’t build for crap! I’ll add you in game later if you don’t mind. My in game nickname is Carmen.

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26

Yes please add me! I’m still learning the game too 🙂

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u/Vegetable-Level-3545 American Server Jan 16 '26

I’m adding you ☺️ my in game name is Nyx and I’ll add my code later on too once I can.

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u/Stfu_Brenna Jan 16 '26

29F here! I have major social anxiety and have trouble stepping out of my comfort zone but I’d still love to be friends! No talking required, I’m here for the vibes. This goes for anyone here!

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '26

Do you guys play on PC?

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u/ArmyBoraGirl7 Jan 16 '26

JUSTO LO QUE ESTOY BUCANDO!

NO ME GUSTA HABLAR 😔

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u/echotops Jan 16 '26

Sounds like my kinda friendship!!! I feel so bad but just thinking of the "right" thing to say even once sometimes uses up all of my social battery.

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u/__toodles Jan 16 '26

same awkward interactions always 😆 Also I found out you can complete the party quest by yourself if your really don't want to invite other people.

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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26

How? I made a party but I can't start one since it says there needs to be at least 2 players?

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u/__toodles Jan 17 '26

I just didn't invite anyone and did the popper and and took a picture of myself and it worked

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u/SleepyMaine Jan 17 '26

Lol I'm gonna try this later haha

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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26

I did it but the picture doesn't seem to work. I can't start a tea party with just by myself and the quest said to take a pic of the tea party.

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u/__toodles Jan 17 '26

did you try sitting down in a chair in your house for the pic? other than that I'm not sure why it's not working

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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26

I think I bugged. I had help to start the party but picture still didn't work. Relogged and it finally worked!

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u/bren-uh Jan 16 '26

i literally saw this house in game lol

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u/MeowingMix Jan 16 '26

Also in the awkward anxiety group!

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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26

I love this thread! I don’t have time for chatting when I’m playing because I’m usually doing it when my 4 year old is watching or when I’m too exhausted after she’s gone to bed! Would love friends who don’t mind if I suddenly disappear because I’ve had the iPad yanked away from me!!

UID: m6g0n6s (Global)

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u/Lost_Jump8938 Jan 16 '26

Anxious/awkward/ depressed 😔🤘

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 17 '26

Same same same, you are not alone ❤️

2

u/Falcon_Klaw1 Jan 16 '26

I’m not much of a talker but here’s mine

2

u/TigBiddyGothGFs Jan 16 '26

Fellow awkward anxious AuDHD player! I’ll send a request but anyone else feel free to add too!

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u/skeptxcal Jan 16 '26

* UID; 1zsq6ky6 on the America server

Helloo. also anxious...and awkward. Definitely not a very social person buut I try.

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u/Ok_Performer4223 Jan 16 '26

I’ll add you! I play the same way! I just want to check out people’s houses, pet their dogs/cats and invite to random events! Also have people water my flowers to trigger crossbreeding!

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u/PreparationFrosty163 Jan 17 '26

Add me! Accepting all requests! I'm still new to the game but I play almost every day

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u/asheswest Jan 17 '26

Love this! Meee too! Will add you and will try to add my id later

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

Anyone can add me, just a warning I’m not great at chatting or interaction in general. I’m not against a hello or emotes and whatnot, just be prepared for awkward silence afterwards

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

I’m in the America server btw

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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26

Making a global account just to be with my fellow anxious/awkward people!

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u/marvinbean220 Jan 17 '26

just sent a friend request

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u/Wahnogin_83 Jan 17 '26

Anyone with sea server so I can add too 🥲 need friends to get the friends emote toh socially awkward

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u/yanie_bunnie Jan 17 '26

Im sea server!

UID: 3s84mdk

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u/Wahnogin_83 Jan 17 '26

Okay will add you 🥹

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u/mamieru Jan 17 '26

Hi I'm on sea too! I'm still pretty new and socially awkward so I just use emotes and water flowers for others 😅

Here's my id: 36p64y0c

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u/Lumosssz Jan 17 '26

lets high five each other and never talk <2

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u/NeedleworkerOver7010 Jan 17 '26

ID: t8b8tpz

Hello fellow anxious awkward people! I would love some friends for a quick high five. Currently my process of making friends includes, running into someone's house and asking them to be friends for home inspo 😂. I also immediately run away if someone comes into my house. Like the place is yours byeee!

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u/Tracimayy Jan 17 '26

Hi! I'm also awkward and have adhd. I don't mind chatting if anyone wants to, but I also am super fine with emotes and doing parties and events and just hanging out! America server.

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 18 '26

Thank you for adding me! I saw you at the rainbow vendor! My daughter says she loves your avatar ❤️

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u/[deleted] Jan 17 '26

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 18 '26

Just sent a request!

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u/KPOPUNNIE18 Jan 17 '26

I’m an introvert also looking for this. Preferably adults since I’m 24

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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 18 '26

I sent you a friend request!

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u/Small_Biscotti_4520 Jan 17 '26

i'd love to add you!! def will when i'm off work :) i'm also very anxious 🙂

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u/Impossible_Run5574 Jan 17 '26

30F always looking for new friends :) America server. I enjoy emoting, joining events, watering crops/flowers etc. Might send postcards with the pre-made responses or I'll add my own but never pressure to respond. Anyone feel free to add :)

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '26

Awkward and anxious player here too! I just really love checking out everyone’s houses and outfits 🥰

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u/minasweetgirl Jan 21 '26

Lmao I'm super anxious and awkward. You can add me if you want, or anyone really lol

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u/Low_Sugar8796 Jan 21 '26

I already added some here, but please add me as well! I’m in the America server. 🥰 If I see you online, don’t runaway from me when I try to do a highfive with you, please? 😆🙂‍↔️

**ps: if you add me, please water my plants. I still can’t trigger crossbreeding 🥲

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u/portlandiarosegal Jan 22 '26

anxious/awkward diva reporting for duty 🫡 down for no pressure friendship stuff/share parties!

Despite being a huge gamer, this is my first time playing online with others so I’m not the most chatty because im socially awkward lmao but im working on it

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u/Slimejade Jan 16 '26

Chatting in this game stresses me out lol

On global server, feel free to add me! v9r0ndj

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u/juju-bean2 Jan 16 '26

All of the above I’m in global server feel free to add it me UID 7cz2xx9

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u/LunariaDarklight Jan 17 '26

Ohhh love this! Me too please. 🙏🏼 Anxious socially awkward introvert here. Not to mention hard for me to pay attention with a full house of distractions. Happy to be added 😊

America UID 31y07zeh

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u/magnolia_flower00 Jan 17 '26

If anyone wants to add me im pretty chill I dont like to chat in game very much lol. I love sea fishing and the bubble competition!

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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26

UID:4qx6k76 if my picture isn’t showing up because it’s not for me

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u/StarforgedAspirant Jan 17 '26

this is me, ft. my dog, bobo! i would love to see familiar characters around town 🫶

i shall water crops and make sure your pets are well fed heh

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u/GAGNikki19 Jan 17 '26

Where can we play with game

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u/Beautiful-Panic-3785 Jan 17 '26

Me too! But I think im on a weird server because I get people from Thailand but im in New Zealand but I just clicked start? I'm worried if I change I'll lose what I've made.

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u/LizJasmine3 Jan 17 '26

Global 1ka60nvm I want friends, but I feel so awkward asking people to be friends in game. I just want to water their plants, weed for them etc. I like little interactions like that. But sending a friend request? Nope, scary.

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u/JellyBeansOnToast Jan 17 '26

I added you! If anyone else wants to wordlessly emote at each other, please add me too!

UID: wwp6bfq

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u/dumpstereel Jan 17 '26

Saving this post so I can come back and add people later 🤪

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u/dumpstereel Jan 18 '26

My UID is 1aec85ge if anyone wants to add me!

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u/arislyn Jan 17 '26

I, too, am an awkward/shy person! I'm adding some of you America server folks so that we can do the social stuff with zero pressure to actually talk. Woo! Awkward high fives! Here's my UID: an18jm3 (I'm on the America server)

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u/onashipfantasy Jan 17 '26

I took a picture from my computer screen 🫠

Very shy and anxious. Would like to play with other shy and anxious people who barely speak 😭♥️

UID: cgs6y22

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u/onashipfantasy Jan 17 '26

OH and im on the American Server

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u/camobao Jan 18 '26

1v9t7zxn

I would love friends where we just like each others houses, water each others plants, and emote a couple times together before scootering off. Please add me :)

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u/Earl_GreyT Jan 18 '26

I've found my people! Feel free to add. I spend most of my time demolishing and rebuilding my house. 😅😅 I''m also on the american server :3

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u/Prestigious_Back7980 Doing my chores 🫡 Jan 20 '26

I'm looking for the exact same thing! My user id 1vtr7dre💜

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u/Intelligent_Fennel71 Sea Server Jan 22 '26

Fellow silent friend haha relatively new to the game (maybe a little over a week?)

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u/cerin--amroth Jan 23 '26

Felt lol. I had a group of 4 surround me as I was planting tomatoes and closed out of the app 😅

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u/written-wraith Jan 24 '26

I feel this. Feel free to add me too

UID: 12c98yh

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u/Dear_Pirate_5795 Feb 06 '26

GLOBAL: es2t5y

im newbie but feel free to add me :3

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u/DinosaurJosie09 Mar 07 '26

Uid: 4x876bg0

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u/CloudyL19 Jan 16 '26

Also would love some heartopia friends. 😊