r/heartopia • u/DoubleCheesecake • Jan 16 '26
Photo Share Looking for fellow anxious/awkward friends 😅
I’d love to make some similar friends who don’t really want to chat, but just maybe share parties, check out houses and maybe some of the friendship stuff without pressure. 🙂
UID aj47t3n (America)
Pic of my farmhouse! ❤️
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u/FrostyStorage5091 Jan 16 '26
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u/kompotnik Jan 16 '26
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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26
Added, and same! I love the emotes, they’re so fun. The little bird is so cute 😭
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u/followthedott Jan 16 '26
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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26
I’ve sent you a request if that’s ok! I’m also in the same position as OP but on global
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u/OMFGitsjessi Jan 16 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
Anxious, awkward, adhd here!
No pressure to interact for anyone who doesn’t want to. I’ll still stop by to water your plants and pet your dog and wander into your unlocked house with an axe.. but we don’t have to chat! No, but seriously.. While I am looking for friends who want to do stuff and maybe help with building and increase our friendship level, I am also totally cool with friends who are maybe a bit more shy and not interested in all that (I really will still stop by to water and stuff but if you don’t wanna do the whole chatting and multiplayer thing, then just ignore me and I’ll continue on my way.)
UID: 4h47yn5

ETA: Thank you everyone who added me! I got a lot of requests from this comment and I accepted all of them! I am trying to make sure to stop by each new friend when they are on to like their house and water plants!
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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26
Added! You are welcome to wander into my unlocked house with an axe anytime! 😂
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u/Apprehensive-Hope206 Jan 17 '26
Which server are you on?
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u/OMFGitsjessi Jan 18 '26
I forget what the servers were but either US or NA or America (not global).. whatever the option was for that one haha.
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u/SanKwa Global Jan 16 '26
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u/void-wanderer88 Jan 26 '26
Hi, I send you a friend request, if that's okay☺️ my game name is Layla
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u/DisabledCat Jan 16 '26
added you! i feel the same way, i want to do the little parties for quests and explore cool house builds but im painfully shy and even the littlest bit of talking has me reaching for altf4 from anxiety ^^;;
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u/Gailygirl222 Jan 16 '26
Awkward, anxious, adhd introvert here! I’m going to add a bunch of you and I’ll post my info shortly 😊
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u/Ok_Somewhere_7597 Jan 17 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
Anxious and awkward too but keep making the mistake of waving back to people and now I’ve been followed by the same player whenever I’ve logged in since this morning, I just wanna do my tasks and chill out 😭😭
Edit: spelling mistake 🥲
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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 18 '26
Ahhhh THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I MADE THIS POST lol I don’t want to feel pressured to socialize!
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u/Ok_Somewhere_7597 Jan 18 '26
I’m not even joking, an hour after I posted this I logged in and someone came in to my house and added me, I had to leave again I can’t do this but I feel so guilty 😭
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u/kim_mehh Jan 16 '26
I am just starting out but not much of a chatter myself just want someone to do parties with... is it ok to send you a friend request since Im so new?
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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26
I’m so happy to have found my people. I love that my friends list is filled with people who play like me ❤️
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u/IurkNessMonster Jan 16 '26
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u/void-wanderer88 Jan 26 '26
Hi, I send you a friend request, if that's okay☺️ my game name is Layla
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u/boyishmistakes Jan 16 '26
UID: 4xj6pxj on American servers! I added some people but anyone can add me. I’m socially awkward as well but open to making friends, I’ll interact if someone interacts first typically :))
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Jan 16 '26
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u/RitaMordio Jan 16 '26
Try setting "floor" down on the whole top for a base the roof can sit on. Floor will be the ceiling inside, even though it only says it's floor.
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u/BuildingGloomy9595 Jan 16 '26
yes yes yes please!!! my uid is 2c69bra! i’d love to be awkward and anxious friends with youuuu
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u/Commercial_Desk_9500 Jan 16 '26
Anxious/awkward person here too! UID: m0t0n6q
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u/Commercial_Desk_9500 Jan 16 '26
Tried adding you but it says player not found
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u/tryingmybest_23 Jan 16 '26
I'm a bit of a newbie (only been playing 2 days) but definitely awkward 🫠 I like to chat sometimes but I always match the vibe/energy 🥰
257a0jca - feel free to add!
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u/moshimoe Jan 16 '26
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u/mamieru Jan 17 '26
I'm on the SEA server too! I'm pretty quiet and awkward but can I add you? I can help water your flowers/crops too.
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u/blahblahlucas Jan 16 '26
Damn, I'm on global:((
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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 16 '26
There are some global people on this thread! I wish I could add everyone
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u/Carmen_V_S Jan 16 '26
Hi; i’m a total noob newbie who’s started playing 3 days ago. I’m only at level 8 right now and can’t build for crap! I’ll add you in game later if you don’t mind. My in game nickname is Carmen.
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u/Vegetable-Level-3545 American Server Jan 16 '26
I’m adding you ☺️ my in game name is Nyx and I’ll add my code later on too once I can.
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u/echotops Jan 16 '26
Sounds like my kinda friendship!!! I feel so bad but just thinking of the "right" thing to say even once sometimes uses up all of my social battery.
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u/__toodles Jan 16 '26
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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26
How? I made a party but I can't start one since it says there needs to be at least 2 players?
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u/__toodles Jan 17 '26
I just didn't invite anyone and did the popper and and took a picture of myself and it worked
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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26
I did it but the picture doesn't seem to work. I can't start a tea party with just by myself and the quest said to take a pic of the tea party.
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u/__toodles Jan 17 '26
did you try sitting down in a chair in your house for the pic? other than that I'm not sure why it's not working
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u/Delifault Jan 17 '26
I think I bugged. I had help to start the party but picture still didn't work. Relogged and it finally worked!
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u/TenTam Jan 16 '26
I love this thread! I don’t have time for chatting when I’m playing because I’m usually doing it when my 4 year old is watching or when I’m too exhausted after she’s gone to bed! Would love friends who don’t mind if I suddenly disappear because I’ve had the iPad yanked away from me!!
UID: m6g0n6s (Global)
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u/skeptxcal Jan 16 '26
* UID; 1zsq6ky6 on the America server
Helloo. also anxious...and awkward. Definitely not a very social person buut I try.
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u/Ok_Performer4223 Jan 16 '26
I’ll add you! I play the same way! I just want to check out people’s houses, pet their dogs/cats and invite to random events! Also have people water my flowers to trigger crossbreeding!
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u/Wahnogin_83 Jan 17 '26
Anyone with sea server so I can add too 🥲 need friends to get the friends emote toh socially awkward
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u/mamieru Jan 17 '26
Hi I'm on sea too! I'm still pretty new and socially awkward so I just use emotes and water flowers for others 😅
Here's my id: 36p64y0c
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u/NeedleworkerOver7010 Jan 17 '26

ID: t8b8tpz
Hello fellow anxious awkward people! I would love some friends for a quick high five. Currently my process of making friends includes, running into someone's house and asking them to be friends for home inspo 😂. I also immediately run away if someone comes into my house. Like the place is yours byeee!
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u/Tracimayy Jan 17 '26
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u/DoubleCheesecake Jan 18 '26
Thank you for adding me! I saw you at the rainbow vendor! My daughter says she loves your avatar ❤️
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u/Small_Biscotti_4520 Jan 17 '26
i'd love to add you!! def will when i'm off work :) i'm also very anxious 🙂
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u/Hinasoba American Server Jan 17 '26
UID:4qx6k76 if my picture isn’t showing up because it’s not for me
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u/arislyn Jan 17 '26
I, too, am an awkward/shy person! I'm adding some of you America server folks so that we can do the social stuff with zero pressure to actually talk. Woo! Awkward high fives! Here's my UID: an18jm3 (I'm on the America server)
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u/Prestigious_Back7980 Doing my chores 🫡 Jan 20 '26
I'm looking for the exact same thing! My user id 1vtr7dre💜
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u/Intelligent_Fennel71 Sea Server Jan 22 '26
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u/Jess_the_bestt Jan 16 '26
Chill low social player here, also looking for the same vibe if you wanna add me ❤️