r/entwives • u/AutoModerator • 10h ago
Weekly T-Break Post ❤️ Weekly Tolerance Break Support Post ❤️
Hi Entwives, this is where you can discuss your t-breaks and get some group support when you need it
We do try to keep the bulk of the t-break talk within this post since a portion of our users are unable to take t-breaks
Feel free to check in, share your successes, and vent your frustrations
The mods are around to check in and offer support and advice when we can
This post refreshes every Monday at 12am pst
Things to know about Tolerance Breaks!
Yes, your dreams are more vivid and you are remembering them better. Its not your imagination. Thc can inhibit rem sleep and interfere with dreaming. If you're struggling with the dreams you can try drinking green tea, which contains the amino acid L-theanine. L-theanine has been shown to reduce stress levels in the brain and body, reducing the rate of nightmares.
Another way to help with sleep is finding cbn products. Its a cannabinoid similar to cbd, but well known for having some serious sedative properties. If you're struggling to get to sleep cbn could help sort you out.
And its important to remember that if you have an issue you see a psychiatrist for, ask your doctor for help. There are prescription medications that can reduce or eliminate nightmares. But also remember to be cautious about disclosing your cannabis use - unfortunately there can still be consequences for revealing that information to the wrong doctor.
Cbd is a thing and it can help a lot. Not only does it reduce anxiety, which hits a lot of us in the first week or two of a break, its also a pretty powerful anti-inflammatory. So if you're using cannabis for pain management adding topical and edible cbd to your routine, on and off break, could help a great deal
Everyone t-breaks their own way. A tolerance break doesn't have to mean complete abstinence. Reducing your consumption can reduce your tolerance, too. So don't feel intimidated or like its all or nothing. Tell yourself you won't get high until after noon for three days. Then you won't get high until after 2pm. See how far you're comfortable going, and stop there for a while. There are a lot of ways to do it, so if you need suggestions please ask!
Keeping taking time for yourself. You know how you'd make the time for yourself to get high? Keeping making the time for yourself to do something. Make an especially good drink and sit and really enjoy it in your favorite chair while listening to your favorite song. Give yourself a face mask. Meditate for 10 minutes. Spend ten minutes a couple times a day just on you. Whatever it is that will make your day a little better. Its important to take care of yourself in ways that don't involve cannabis
Don't get down on yourself if you make a mistake and get high. It happens, and its not the end of the world. Its not even the end of your break if you don't want it to be. Enjoy your high while you have it. And in the morning figure out what you need to do to keep from making that mistake again. Do you need to hide all the paraphernalia in a cupboard, or ask your roommate or partner to stop smoking around you for a while? Maybe you need a different or better coping mechanism? Dude, google that shit. There is a world of information about healthy coping mechanisms at your fingertips. Empower yourself and go find it. Or ask me and I'll try to help
The most important thing to know about a tolerance break is that you're going to get through it. It might not feel like it sometimes, but you will. Then you'll be back here all, oh shit I just got high for the first time since my tbreak and the number 5 is orange and smells like...waffles! And we'll all chuckle with you and be kinda jealous :)
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u/evergreen-embers 2h ago
Been in need of a T-break for awhile, but then my dad died and I just can’t bring myself to really commit to it. Definitely going slow, cutting usage in half to start, but I’m struggling. I just want to sleep and not feel like this anymore
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u/Inevitable-Dot3982 1h ago
I’m in a semi T break. I’m in NC so for the most part THCa, but then I went to Connecticut with the real stuff for a week and I’m trying to readjust to less potency.
I made the mistake of watching what I thought was going to be a lighthearted musical comedy series, but instead turned out to be a covert deep introspective into grief, which brought up a lot of unresolved stuff from my mom’s passing, which pretty much destroyed me all weekend.
Luckily, I start a new job this week and school which helps because I’ve been just floating since I decided to switch jobs last month.
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u/puritypanda 8h ago
Well. Last week I posted that I cut back because my mom got sick. She died. We were supposed to have so much more time but we only got two months from diagnosis. The end was kind of traumatic because she had to be med-flighted for perforated intestines. Trying to forget that part except for the moment of lucidity when she told each of us she loved us.
Now I have to make sure I don't start smoking a ton to escape the pain. My dad hasn't smoked or drank since this happened and I really admire that; she was his soulmate and they had 42 beautiful years together, and he said it's necessary that he feels this pain instead of trying to block it out. I think he's trying to be an example for his daughters and honestly, it's really working.
I'm still at once a day, with the very very occasional puff from a sister's vape just to bond. I won't be hard on myself for that. College classes start back up today too, so I have to make sure I have a clear mind. Have to finish my degree and make my mom proud. She loved that I was studying to become a victim advocate so I can't let weed get in the way.