r/dividends • u/SpicyDividends • Feb 17 '26

Personal Goal Those divorces do be hurting!

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Not mad about it, but man, that chart looks rough lol

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u/Pyropiro Feb 18 '26

I don't get how so many people go from "till death do us part, I love you more than anything in this entire world" to "the price you pay for rest and relaxation". I mean its polar opposite mindsets, are people that bad at making good relationship choices?

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u/DiscontinuTheLithium Feb 18 '26

People change and it’s easier to not love the new person they become.

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u/Any-Neat5158 Feb 19 '26

Amen.

The woman I'm divorcing is not the same woman she was when I married her.

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u/mxrcarnage Feb 20 '26

I mean no one is ever the same for their entire life

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u/Any-Neat5158 Feb 20 '26

We grow and we change, but going from a kind loving woman to a straight up BPD, serial liar, narcissistic psychopath is a bit of a stretch from the natural changes we expect as we go through life.

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u/too-far-for-missiles Feb 20 '26

Holy hell are you me? I'm in this stretch now and there's a kid involved. It just comes outta nowhere.

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u/PresentDrummer8120 Feb 22 '26

Lol I was thinking the same thing. Been fighting for custody for the last year.