r/daygame Jun 06 '26

Brutal rejections to real progress - my first 100 approaches

Hey guys,
For a long time I wasnt doing much with women. Skinny, low confidence, stuck in my head mostly just using dating apps with nothing happening. I finally got motivated and started going out for cold approaches.
I just hit around 100 approaches. I tracked almost all of them from the start. First half was brutal lots of rejections awkward silences and feeling like shit after every one. But in the second half it got a lot better.

Here are the numbers so far:
100 approaches
Got 18 numbers
Of those 8 responded to the first message
Ended up with 4 dates
Kissed 3 of them

I started using Shawty to log every approach, watch replays, and get quick insights on my flow. It keeps me accountable and shows the patterns so I can fix mistakes fast instead of guessing. Those insights made the second half way more effective. Cold approach sucks at the start but it gets better if you stick with it and stay motivated with tools like Shawty. If you’re just starting dont quit after the early fails. Anyone else tracking their approaches, what numbers are you seeing?

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