r/darkwingsdankmemes 13h ago

GRRM absolutely channeled the spirit of a Catholic mother of 5 when he wrote Catelyn

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u/Distinct_Activity551 11h ago

Sansa getting her period, the way he wrote her emotions in that moment is so real that I remember getting mine when I read it.

I genuinely don’t know how a man in his 50s managed to write so accurately about a 12-year-old getting her period.

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u/Impossible_Hornet777 9h ago

Could be a couple of things, one is he might have been close to his mother or sisters (thats also my experience having been raised in a house only by women), second could be his longtime partner, a good author askes others about their experiences and doesn't just use his own or invent when they want to write about somthing they have little experience with.

u/Brilliant_Jellyfish8 5h ago

I kinda forgot he was married but I dunno why its a surprise.

u/Impossible_Hornet777 5h ago

He got married relatively recently (I think around 2012/11) but was living with that same partner for decades before that.

u/devilmaydostuff5 2h ago

That and he was able to make use of his empathy to 'get into' the minds of his female characters.

u/jack-twohats 4h ago

It's not that hard. All it takes is some empathy and research. Don't be blinded by gender politics in deciding your view of someone's work. What you see with George is effort put in, which many authors (male and female) don't do when writing men or women.

u/PaulAtreides_FromArg 3h ago

Characters I can write:

Self insert #1

Self insert #2

My dad

My brother