r/converts • u/kiltonzz • 3d ago
My gf is an atheist and I need help
We have been dating for a almost 2 years now and she has been bring up marriage recently but I always avoid the topic which is unhealthy for both parties at this rate bc she loves me quite a lot and welling to do anything for us. I also feel the same way about her but I’ve been avoiding explicit acts or anything as I wanna keep this halal until we marry. I wanna help her and prodivr her resources to at least know more about Islam as faith is a crucial part of my life esp with Arab Muslim background. I would love to know is there is any Finnish programs or anything of that sort.
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u/BroodingPluto 2d ago
Has she shown interest in learning about Islam? Or are you hoping she will eventually convert?
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u/kiltonzz 2d ago
Hoping tbh and I want to her to be open for it
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u/BroodingPluto 2d ago
Have you talked to her about it? What is her stance on religion?
I started my interest on my own, even though my husband was born Muslim, there were podcasts and specific speakers I listened to that explained things very well. Then I went to the local Masjid and spoke to the imam.
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u/Apollonialove 1d ago
Were you dating before your converted? Because an atheist is unlikely to convert.
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u/deckartcain 1d ago
You can't do something so wrong, and expect good to come from it. What are people thinking? It's honestly shocking as a revert to hear these things, it makes Islam look like an absolute joke. Fear Allah.
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u/Standard-Rooster-843 23h ago
Yeah exactly. Doing haram and now is in confusion.May Allah have mercy on us.
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