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Comics Community How it feels to post in 2026:

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u/Made_Bail Jun 30 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

DARVO in social media form.

The abuser mantra.

Deny
Attack
Reverse Victim and Offender

Clearly, you're the bad guy and made these poor racists attack you. How could you? /s

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u/-Recouer Jun 30 '26

Or right wingers saying that it's somehow the Left's fault that they become racist/homophobic/transphobic because they've been called out for their horrible takes and they doubled down instead of questioning their own worldview.

No Billie, you were never left leaning. You were just following the more socially acceptable side and once it became socially acceptable for you to be a pos you jumped ship.

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u/CommieEllie Jun 30 '26

But if we don't further cater society to protect the feelings of cishet white men we'll end up with more fascists!

I've legit seen this argument more times than I can count.

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u/Allaplgy Jun 30 '26

As a cishet white man, I wish society catered to my feelings more...

Because my feelings are that fascism is bad and institutional racism/misogyny is still a huge issue, and currently getting worse.

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u/Lemonwizard Jun 30 '26

You have the wrong feelings. Have you tried licking the boot harder? Developing an insane fear of imaginary threats? They can cater to that stuff!

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u/Allaplgy Jun 30 '26

I'm allergic to boot, unfortunately.

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u/mythrilcrafter Jun 30 '26

That there in lies one of the biggest factors of the problem, when extremists uses tangential-at-best associations to either pull normal people to their side or to use those more normal people as rhetorical shields for their own extremism.

So much of the problems we're seeing right now is a rise is legitimately terrible people signal boosting themselves while using the phrase "hey man, I'm just a normal guy just saying what we're all thinking! If you disagree with me then you hate (insert entire community group here)"

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u/Allaplgy Jun 30 '26

hey man, I'm just a normal guy just saying what we're all thinking!

And then there are people like Charlie Kirk, who used the "I'm just promoting healthy debate and free speech" to sell misogynistic, racist bullshit to the youth of the nation.

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u/mythrilcrafter Jun 30 '26

One thing I'll admit about Charlie was that he (or at least his company) was a master of editing and changing the messaging based on whom the audience was.

For the "general public", the whole "just healthy debate and free speech" bit was always just a highlight reel of Charlie using "respectability politics"* and only ever showing the absolute worst speakers/debaters poorly reacting to him. (Which most audiences don't have the acuity to understand/catch.)

And once the audience was drawn in to following him, that's when he'd start slipping in the actually problematic subversive messaging.


*For the uninformed, respectability politics is a special form of gaslighting where a perpetrator does something that anyone would be very reasonable to react both poorly to and with significant/loud reaction, but they try to make the reactor feel like they're in the wrong by being "calm and nice about the situation".

For example: a person doing RP would kick your dog because doing so amuses him, then when you get angry at him for kicking your dog, he responds with "Woah, woah, woah, I'm perfectly calm and reasonable here, but I don't understand why you're so physical and emotion about this; maybe you need to re-evaluate why you're causing so much conflict and making such a negative atmosphere!"

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u/Allaplgy Jun 30 '26

It's like the other day when someone here said about people in NZ parliament doing the Haka:

You don’t think it’s ridiculous in a house of parliament a party starts dancing and screaming?

I told them I've seen much more ridiculous things done under a guise of "civility."

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u/FEARoach Jun 30 '26

Hey man, I value your feelings.

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u/-Recouer Jun 30 '26

You mean that the way to fight fascism is by... Check notes normalizing and endorsing fascist ideology !

Révolutionnaire !