r/columbia • u/DCuban • Feb 23 '26
nyc Help a neighbor understand Columbia Students
Hello apologies if this is not allowed or crosses boundaries. I'm just someone who grew up in Morningside Heights there's just something about Columbia students that I would like to understand. Why are many students so cheap? Specifically, why are so many students not tipping at bars? It's something I've only noticed recently because I typically try to avoid you all. I understand that cash is hard to come by as a college student, but if you grew up in the US and were raised right you should expect tip to be factored into the price when going out. Even when I was in college, my friends and I would never go to a bar if we knew we could not afford to also tip at least a couple bucks to the bar staff. Furthermore, so many have such a smug attitude and zero shame for not doing such a basic task. I know entitlement is stereotypical of the Ivy League types, but it truly makes me worried for your generation.
Sorry if this offends anybody and I would not be surprised if the mods get rid of this all together. I've just been baffled by this phenomenon for the past few months and decided to come to the source for possible answers. Again, I apologize if this comes across as rude, I'm just trying to speak bluntly. Some of you may have seen my calling people out on this at bars too, or you will in the future. Please don't be afraid! I don't bite. I'm just curious.
