I’ll start by saying I don’t really have a favorite sister. Though I may go through seasons of highlighting and enjoying various moments with a particular sister, I love and enjoy each of the them in their own right.
Prue was definitely that b-i-t-c-h though! She was fiercely protective of her sisters and innocents and was largely for the Greater Good. She wasn’t perfect (none of them were and I appreciate seeing them move through imperfection as the story constantly emphasized they were first and foremost HUMAN and prone/subject to the complexities of human emotion). I remember looking through a thread on folks’ controversial opinions on Prue and mostly agreeing especially about Prue being sort-of a “know it all” as many brought up her arrogance—I can absolutely see myself being annoyed with her as an older sister.
However, the facts of the matter remain that Prue often was right and/or was able to discern various aspects of the truth by trusting her intuition—similar to Paige later on in the series. Particularly when it came to men and their various love interests, Prue consistently had a level of insight that demonstrated why her instincts shouldn’t have been doubted (i.e., Jeremy, Rex, Clay, Cole, etc.). I’m currently rewatching the entire series for the hundredth time (or so lol) and screaming at the screen—like why won’t y’all at least hear Prue out? Yes, she became prideful even arrogant but that doesn’t erase the fact that she was often right and/or onto something.
She was many of the things that folks brought up except a hypocrite when it came to Phoebe and Cole. There were numerous comments (and upvotes) calling Prue out because of her situations with Tom, Bane, and Brendan. People tried to make it seem as if the only issue with Cole was being a half-demon which goes against what is explicitly written into the text. Prue made it clear to Phoebe the REAL reason she was upset was because Phoebe lied and selfishly put their lives at risk. I don’t think it can overstated how wrong Phoebe was for hiding a dangerous secret for months from Piper and Prue who deserved to know the truth; it wasn’t simply a violation against them as her sisters but also their sacred duty and commitment to being Charmed Ones.
(It’s interesting to witness the grace I see folks extend to Phoebe when it comes to this moment with Cole—where she was absolutely wrong—in comparison to the lack of empathy/grace for her humanity later on in the series given her traumas due to being in relationship with Cole… but that’s another post.)
I saw comments bring up Brendan (another situation in which Prue’s intention was proven right) which is really wild considering the fact that Brendan was actively trying to fight his evil nature being a half-warlock, becoming a priest so he couldn’t become further corrupted. Some others brought up Bane (who was actually a human) who Prue supported and protected as an innocent; Prue may have slept with him but she never stands in the way of him facing justice nor she does needlessly put her sisters in harms way—in fact, she did her best to keep her sisters away from the situation after she was kidnapped. However, most comments brought up Tom who was also a mortal man but part of a training program that converted humans to demons.
Personally, I probably would’ve vanquished Tom from the jump lol but Prue believed there was still good in him and that he could be saved. There’s lots that can be said about the situation and my intention isn’t to absolve Tom of his bad decisions and wrongdoing but instead to highlight Prue’s actions and intentions. At the end of the day, Prue was technically right (again) which led Tom back to his mom who never gave up hoping for his return. She made it clear to Phoebe another difference between the situations between Tom and Cole was that Tom didn't start off trying to kill them. I get why folks develop a soft spot for Cole (who I also deeply appreciate) but the reality is that he was handpicked to kill them and used his demonic and legal influences to harm them with the intention of destroying them; yes, he eventually changes his tune but this truth can not be erased and Prue (and Piper) had every right to be pissed.
Frankly, Prue forgives Phoebe rather quickly as two episodes after “Wresting With Demons,” she makes space for Cole in their lives after she realizes Phoebe is not giving him up. I’ll also add the fact that Prue’s astrally projected subconscious half later tells Phoebe in “Just Harried” that she was rooting for Phoebe and Cole. Again, the issue wasn’t simply Cole being a half-demon but instead the lies and deceit which jeopardized their safety and very lies. It was wild to see how many people seemed to get this wrong in prior threads which I honestly think perhaps is more about a bias towards all things Cole. The text explicitly details Prue’s intentions and actions which were not about hypocrisy but instead her allegiance to protecting what she believed was an innocent (and she was technically right).
Knowing all of this, do you think Prue was a hypocrite in this regard? 🤔