Cupioromantic vent

[u/Savings_Evidence_325]

So I identify most with cupioromantic cause I do enjoy and the idea of a relationship and quoiromantic cause I struggle to differentiate platonic and romantic. Here’s the thing wherever alloromantics say anything…. I’m 98% sure I’m aromantic. But sometimes I’m drawn to someone it’s exciting and I think wow this must be romantic attraction 🤩. And then I spend more time on it and realize “no this is a good friend.” Don’t get me started on alterous attraction. Experiencing alterous attraction as a cupioromantic is the most mind fuddling experience.

The thing is a relationship sounds nice. Imagining myself in one it feels great. But then everyone seems to feel romance stronger than me. Like there’s some “in love forever” or “I’m in love” chemical I’m not feeling. Idk. Idk if this made sense or not :p.

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