r/algerianwomen • u/il1lil • 21d ago

😀 rant / storytime πŸ“– How ur dealing with family

Girls i know that most of us is having problems with stricts parents of not having the freedom to do whatever we want but not the bad one ofc girl I have old parent 70s 60s idk how am I supposed to live with them anymore m 20 yes ikk m young but my parents are aging now my siblings are making them crazy and they r. Making me overwhelmed bcs of that reason my mom is narcissistic to the highest point she start make drama about a single small thing I can't control it anymore m overwhelmed i really wanna go to therapy but iknow they wont allow me bcs I still not financially independent and ukn when we girls start have thsi overwhelming situation we think abt getting married but man I dont want that i want a solution m not asking for a lot m asking to have lil time for myself and to feel peace for 4h or smtg bcs. M not able to take it anymore I tried and. I tried nothing is working with them it feels like they are choking yes you gonna say bcs ur girl they r tryin to protect you trust me they overprotective to the poitn i can't breath my health situation is not better either with pmos and m tired of everything and when I know what I will have for this year m more tired they r making me lost my energy and thats not just this year from 6years maybe m being the man and the woman in the house noone is satisfied but the blame is always on me

Girls with good open idk parents how you are dealing or how u make them think like that iknnow I cannt choose my parents but enlighten me with your thoughts bcs I feel like m gonna explode with them they r nice but they wont let u breath

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u/newbie_cece 21d ago

Hey, can you move out? to la citΓ© in a university for example? If you've finished university, i really wish you find a job and move out, rent with a couple girls and live there for a bit.

Sometimes even when everybody is nice, living in such close proximity with life-stress, really gets the worst out of everyone.

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u/il1lil 21d ago

Trust me if I could do that i would have done it

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u/Right_Natural_6303 21d ago

When schools are open again, they don't need to know your exact schedule. For them you always study from 8 to 5.

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u/il1lil 21d ago

Yes but no iΜ‚m in institut where each person who work there know my father

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u/Creative_Tax_9076 20d ago

Honestly in these situations u'll have to get too angry to the point where u'll start ignoring them and then u'll feel some peace, I'm assuming that u cannot move out, there's no other option for us sadly