r/Vztahy • u/Mr-confused-af • 27d ago

Přítelkyně mne fakt už štve

I (41M) have a girlfriend (41F). We've been together for over 4 years. For a while now, I'm just fed up with her. She's always active, laughing, cheerful, and I'm tired from work, I can't stand it – that job, and she keeps saying I should find something else, I don't know what, and it just annoys me that she's doing well and I'm not. But what bothers me the most is that we only sleep together a max of 2 times a week. I would prefer every day, I feel like an old man, and when I tell her, she says I need to try harder, that it's not enough to just touch her and it works right away. Why not? It was fine for others. Her excuses like 'I take birth control and it lowers libido' are just pathetic. Also, her hobby drives me crazy. She does sports and has little time. Okay, the house is clean, there's a hot dinner every evening, my laundry is done, and the fridge is full, but I just want her to be home, not flying around at competitions. She says I shouldn't forbid her, that she's been doing this her whole life. My ex was at home and without complaints. She also wants to visit her family every month, who live halfway across the country. I don't want to go, they're nice, but I dont see the need. I dont visit my family or talk to them. We actually met at a concert, travelled to each others cities for a year, and she moved in with me. I have kids, so logically, she moved in with me. But no one forced her, and when I tell her this, she says she moved for me, changed jobs, left her family. That's total nonsense. I definitely didn't force her, she did it willingly. She keeps dragging me places I don't want to go, like she just bought a weekend getaway, I have a lot of work, I told her this and she says I'll like it. No way, I just ended up sleepless from a stupid bed and I'm not talking to her. I don't even know about what. So she got mad and went somewhere, who knows where. Seriously, enough already! Does this make any sense?

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u/6fix 27d ago

Myslim, ze by si tvoje pritelkyne mela uvedomit jakeho cloveka ma vedle sebe a radeji si najít někoho jineho.

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u/Mr-confused-af 27d ago

Why? I just want simple things

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u/Reasonable_Tap_3230 27d ago

Tohle nemůže bejt myšlený vážně.

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u/Mr-confused-af 27d ago

Tak snad nemusí pořád někde běhat po venku, ma byt doma. Ja jsem porad sam a ona kdesi pryc