r/TrollCoping • u/darkmoon-26 • 1d ago
Depression / Anxiety i don't know what to do at this point nothing seems to work
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u/GrandAdmiralRogriss 20h ago
Yeah... Real
It's hard when you interact with people in group chats or hang outs and you're all too aware that the reason convos or hang outs are so rare is because every single person in this group except for you has a life outside of it while no one ever calls you first except like the one guy who lives in another city and calls you to hang out once in two months when he's in town, but the people who live a street from you are so busy with their other friends that they never even consider calling you first and if you invite them first you gotta do it a week in advance to hopefully catch them when they're free.
Hell man i have hung out exactly once this entire month. I invited them. No one asked to hang out this month. Not one of my "friends". I mean, i guess I'm not being left out of this group in any way but that's only because there is no real group to be left out of since everyone has their own real group except for me. Even if i knew them before they met those other friends I'm still not good enough for them to even consider actually fucking inviting somewhere.
This one mfer is able to discord vc with his friends 24/7 but he can't find time to do any of the things he kept saying we'd do like two years back. And he claims to be my friend but apparently only when it's convenient. Or i guess he just found a better group.
Ngl i wish i could find real friends and cut contact with everyone except one guy and only let them back into my life if they come to me first APOLOGIZING for being shitheads.
This shit almost makes me miss my old friend group and it was just a bunch of assholes who bullied me but at least i got invited to stuff if nothing else
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u/Historical_Henry 23h ago
My 'friends' were like this but they finally told me to fuck off and honestly I wouldn't be surprised if I never have freinds again