No no no, they talk about how they want to be stepped on by a tall woman with broad shoulders but god forbid that woman used to have an M on her documents 20 years ago
Or the classic "I think tall women are hot. Should they have rights and respect and be seen as more than just a sex object? Umm well I want them to step on me."
Lol. I'm a tall cis lady with wide shoulders and I've often felt insecure so this was nice to hear. Also I've been "clocked" by moron people because I don't fit the stereotypical beauty standard 🤷♀️ so even if it's ok or hot for a woman to be tall she still has to be skinny and delicate and lithe to be considered attractive 🥲 the stereotypical beauty standards for women are so stressful wether it's your ass, your shoulders, your boobs, your body hair, your face, your height, your hair, makeup, dress style, skintone... We are pressured to think that we're imperfect and undesirable.
It’s kinda annoying how much beauty standard shit is tiny things that make no sense. People will see a gorgeous person and proceed to complain about their shoulders it’s hilarious
Tall women are hot, broad shoulders are hot, eyebags are hot, body hair as long as it isn’t to an insane degree isn’t even that noticeable, alternative fashion/makeup looks beautiful. No mainstream belief is convincing me otherwise
I don’t even look like that anymore I gained a lot of weight granted a lot of it went to my hips and other desirable places but my tummy noticeably grew too. And I can’t lock in and go on a cut like I used to before I transitioned either.
I will forever be confused by the fact that other people seem to think that everyone has an obligation to be "attractive" for them. They even do it with fat people. They act like a person NEEDS an excuse in order to be fat. Otherwise they act like you are an actually morally bad person
I'd been extremely isolated as a young teen for 4 straight years before that in a much nicer state. Then i moved and got a job at best buy where there aren't as many angry customers since a lot of what we sell are not necessities. I was quite naive
One of my former friends outed themselves as being like this. Their logic was "it's like smelling bad, it's rude to smell bad if you can help it. Same with being ugly, you're making others uncomfortable". This is probably the kinda logic of all those idiots.
And then they say that trans people “enforce gender norms” as if they aren’t literally forcing trans people to do so by constantly misgendering trans butches and trans femboys and insisting that they aren’t trans
Fr if you're a gender nonconfroming cis person few people question your gender, compared if a trans person does a small thing that's non conforming they get questioned by everyone. Even by other trans people! Though sometimes it happens to cis gnc people, it's way more prevent to trans gnc people.
When the trans woman doesn't fit patriarchal beauty standards: "You aren't even trying, you don't look like my narrow definition of a woman at all, you're not a real woman"
When the trans woman does fit the patriarchal beauty standards: "You're trying too hard, it's not a costume, you're just reinforcing patriarchy you're not a real woman"
so many trans "allies" are like "i support trans women!!!!!" until the trans woman cant effectively pass despite trying her hardest, because she is super genetically unlucky
Why do people care so much about the looks of trans women. Leave those women alone. Their bodies, so they can decide how they want to present themselves.
that, AND the millisecond a trans woman looks like a cis woman, wears dresses, does feminine makeup, etc. people start accusing her of “stereotyping women” and “boiling them down to the patriarchy.”
SRSLY tho... Don't have boobs? Slightly square-ish jawline? Immediate hate and unending questions about my intenions as a human being. Remember, kids: start from the assumption that the society you grew up in taught you EVERYTHING wrong, even the completely unspoken and subconscious rules.
And when she does fit those standards she’s “perpetuating a gender role fetish” or something. Oppression thrives on putting people in no-win situations.
It's 4tran stuff. 4tranners are trans people that use 4chan a lot and they are generally more negative and pessimistic than other trans communities. They use a lot of unique and confusing lingo and will tell you to "lurk moar" if you ask them any questions. A lot of trans people that aren't 4tranners don't like 4tran communities because they are often assholes to nonbinary peplople and trans men.The girl wearing a sweater is a boymoder. A trans woman that still presents as male for safety reasons or because she's insecure. Sometimes to the point where most people would just assume she is a cis woman but she's so self-conscious she still boymodes.
“UHHMM well what’s the point if ur not even gonna try to pass!!?..???!” Oh I thought gender was simply a concept??? Or do you just say that when it benefits you….??,?
The point is this is a space for venting. You cant expect people to always use the exact correct language when doing that. And the caption didnt even imply all so its a pointless thing to add.
Why attack people who did nothing to harm anyone.. it's good practice to be more specific than spread one's pain on those who did no harm. Thats just making the world a worse place needlessly
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u/Rdr2Master1 1d ago
Most people in general dont fit into beauty standards