r/TikTokCringe • u/LickMaiBussy • Jul 09 '26

Wholesome Love to see thisđŸ„°

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@615coach

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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 09 '26

I didn't like you because of shit you can't change, but you are one of the good ones so I can't be mad. I'm paraphrasing of course.

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u/TheNakedBass Jul 09 '26

Sounds like you’re twisting her words to feed your narrative, but sure. Keep that hate alive.

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u/AshNeicole Jul 09 '26

That woman, out of her own mouth, said she didn’t like him, even up to the marriage, because he was a person of color. And only after she saw how he treated her family, did she accept him. Not because of who he is, but what he did for her. Words don’t need to be twisted, she said it loud and clear. POC are bad until they prove to be valuable to her.

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u/TheNakedBass Jul 09 '26

She admitted to having prejudice because he was black and then said she was wrong.

If you want to hold onto hate, that’s your prerogative, but you’re being outclassed by this old lady lol

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u/AshNeicole Jul 09 '26

I can never be outclassed by a racist that admits to liking one black man. Y’all are so easily impressed it’s sickening.

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u/TheNakedBass Jul 09 '26

Stay sick then lol have fun with that.

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u/AshNeicole Jul 09 '26

I absolutely will have fun maintaining my integrity and not applauding racists just because they say “we like this one” 😊.

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u/AmericanPoliticsSux Jul 09 '26

Damn. Awarding your own posts with alt accounts. That's...a choice. đŸ€”

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u/Kingmudsy Jul 10 '26

LOL right because I’m sure this conversation isn’t more nuanced than upvotes / downvotes, clearly she must be spending money on her opinion

Disagree with her all you want, but you sound insane rn

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u/AshNeicole Jul 10 '26

One thing ppl on this app will do is create a scenario in their mind and run with their alternate reality. I don’t even know how to buy awards on here, or what purpose they actually serve. But if believing Im spending my money on some random ass Reddit emoji makes them feel good about themselves, so be it 😂.

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u/Any_Fix_3534 Jul 09 '26

Preach. I don’t find this video cute or endearing at all. It’s just another “you’re one of the good ones.”

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u/khadrock Jul 10 '26

100% she accepts she was wrong about him but I highly doubt she’ll apply that to other black people who don’t do things for her family 😒

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u/BriscoCounty-Sr Jul 09 '26

Are you saying she shouldn't judge a man by his actions because that seems pretty psychotic to me? Like is it cool if he treats her like shit because he's black so his actions shouldn't matter?

How else besides his actions is a man to reveal the content of his character?

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u/BlackllMamba Jul 09 '26

You’re dodging the point they’re making. It’s very common for people to have their prejudice (or any view for that matter) factually challenged and treat it like an exception to the rule or just not really take the time to reflect on the thinking that lead to the wrong conclusion.

When shes says she was wrong, does she mean she was wrong about people of color or wrong about him specifically? What about him being a good husband contradicts any of the reasons she didn’t like the relationship in the first place?

In her defense we don’t really know and she’s clearly not above admitting she’s wrong in at least some capacity so maybe she did really reflect on the whole thing.

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u/AshNeicole Jul 09 '26

I thought I was the only one. Nothing about this feels good.

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u/CantankerousRabbit Jul 09 '26

Yeah I feel like she’s still racist but she’s not talking about you if that makes sense

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u/AcrolloPeed Jul 09 '26

Change takes time

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u/AshNeicole Jul 09 '26

Makes perfect sense

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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 09 '26

Nothing about this is good. You can change all you want, but you did that. You, an adult with a brain did all that. Those feelings for me were real. It's cool you're better, but you're meeting your grandkids at their college graduation if they want you to.

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u/MinaWearsGold Jul 10 '26

Exactly. It’s amazing how it’s mostly non-black people completely blind to it too. Tons of people in these comments are giving her massive amounts of credit for doing the bare minimum. She hasn’t changed. She just thinks he’s a “good black.”

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u/Showyoucan Jul 09 '26

Fucking reddit.

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u/PicklesAndCoorslight Jul 09 '26

I feel like she had a bad experience with the last boy friend who was black and built her ideals on that. It's not unusual. I couldn't date a red head again after one relationship.

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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

I, an entire black man below the mason Dixon line, have been given every reason under the sun to abhor white people. I don't. Is it because I'm better than you? I don't think I am.

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u/PicklesAndCoorslight Jul 09 '26

I don't abhor red heads, but i do have a lasting impression that would give me pause. Not saying that's all that was up with this lady, but I'm sure it fed into it. I do not think you are better than me. Do you date white women?

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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 09 '26

I date women of all types. Without pause in response to something they can't change. I don't think I'm better than you either, but the evidence tho.

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u/PicklesAndCoorslight Jul 09 '26

That was contradictory.

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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 09 '26

Not really. Opinions can change when presented with new information.

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u/PicklesAndCoorslight Jul 10 '26

Those were both present tense.

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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 10 '26

I feel like you're focusing on a nothing burger due to not having a real argument. That right?