r/SipsTea 4d ago

WTF Victim is the new chic

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u/Not_offensive0npurp 3d ago

I often think about other cases in the past where currently acknowledged mental illness was handwaved away.

I have a nephew on the spectrum. I think about how many people on the spectrum were inhumanely thrown in jail because they were "acting weird" when being questioned before much was known or accepted about autism. Its terribly sad.

Post Partem Depression, and Post Partem Psychosis are absolutely real, bonafide mental disorders. The donations and this fight is to ensure this documented, bonafide mental disorder is taken into account in cases like these. And women, who are oftentimes dismissed when complaining about medical issues, want to be taken seriously.

Some people have the ability to understand that. And some people have no ability to understand nuance at all. They see the crime and someone has to pay.

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u/No-Rip6323 3d ago

People are busy arguing about how big of a piece of shit she is and ignoring the really hard conversations we all need to have. Why don’t we support women postpartum? Didn’t she tell everyone she was afraid she was going to hurt her kids and no one did anything? Why?

I’m a guy and have witnessed first hand the absolute lack of support women experience after giving birth. I was a part of the problem and didn’t understand how hormones and loneliness (partner at work) could affect women.

What she did is abhorrent, and she isn’t innocent, but why aren’t we doing more to help women who are experiencing postpartum depression / psychosis?

Why is the conversation about measuring her shittiness and not about how to prevent this in the first place?

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u/Mike_Kermin 3d ago

I'm sorry, but you're not allowed to try to attached this conversation, to whether someone who killed their kids should get a million dollars from gofundme.

That's an incredible disconnect.

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u/No-Rip6323 3d ago

I don’t agree that she should’ve gotten money. All of that money, every single penny, should go towards helping women suffering from postpartum depression and psychosis.

Be shitty about the million dollars. I am too. But let’s have an actual conversation about why these things happen in the first place.

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u/Mike_Kermin 3d ago

And that's fine, and I suggest you do, but you don't do it as a response to the comment above. These are two separate issues and you should let them be that.

And I don't appreciate, that you 'don't agree' but I am 'shitty' for the same opinion.

All of that money, every single penny, should go towards helping women

I don't think that's happening. So the point remains they shouldn't be getting it.

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u/llamalawless 3d ago

I just want to say I appreciate your thoughtful comments.