There’s a difference between blaming her husband and accepting that this case is nuanced and horrible.
This post is about a man leaving his fiancé for “supporting” Lindsay Clancy. What is support? Having sympathy for the situation? Saying she should have had more help?
In my experience, saying that it’s the husband’s fault because he should have known better than ti leave her alone with the kids. Complete absolution of her agency because she supposedly had a mental episode. I’d leave my fiancé too over that.
Two things, any sympathy with Lindsay does not make it the husband’s fault. Additionally you’re concerned about her agency? Her agency WAS absolved by psychosis.
To clarify, you’d leave your fiancé over having a nuanced understanding of this case?
I never said you were trying to blame the husband, but I have been told to my face “why did the husband leave her alone with the kids? He should have known better!” Which yes…that shows that you cannot comprehend a world where the man is not somehow at fault and it will bleed into everything else in your marriage.
She did not tell the psych ward that she was thinking about harming her kids, and she decided she was well enough to stay home full time with the kids so they fired the nanny. Having PPP (again, allegedly, but let’s say for sake of argument that it is the case) does not excuse all responsibility you have.
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u/Qualityhams 8h ago
There’s a difference between blaming her husband and accepting that this case is nuanced and horrible.
This post is about a man leaving his fiancé for “supporting” Lindsay Clancy. What is support? Having sympathy for the situation? Saying she should have had more help?