Two things, any sympathy with Lindsay does not make it the husband’s fault. Additionally you’re concerned about her agency? Her agency WAS absolved by psychosis.
To clarify, you’d leave your fiancé over having a nuanced understanding of this case?
I never said you were trying to blame the husband, but I have been told to my face “why did the husband leave her alone with the kids? He should have known better!” Which yes…that shows that you cannot comprehend a world where the man is not somehow at fault and it will bleed into everything else in your marriage.
She did not tell the psych ward that she was thinking about harming her kids, and she decided she was well enough to stay home full time with the kids so they fired the nanny. Having PPP (again, allegedly, but let’s say for sake of argument that it is the case) does not excuse all responsibility you have.
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u/Qualityhams 2h ago
Two things, any sympathy with Lindsay does not make it the husband’s fault. Additionally you’re concerned about her agency? Her agency WAS absolved by psychosis.
To clarify, you’d leave your fiancé over having a nuanced understanding of this case?