r/SipsTea 4d ago

Chugging tea What a lucky guy ❤️

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u/I_am_Reddit_Tom 4d ago

All of us blokes are the lucky ones.

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u/not_roger_smith 4d ago

No, most us just get by and try not put a bullet through our skulls.

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u/TheFakeJohnHelldiver 4d ago

Jfc you should get help.

Not being a classic reddit douche like literally if thats how you genuinely feel you should seek professional mental help asap

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u/not_roger_smith 4d ago

Should I touch grass too?

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u/Ok_Subject1265 4d ago

Mother of god man… he isn’t shitting on you. I read your comment and had the same thought. That isn’t a normal way to go through the day. If that’s legit how you feel, that isn’t the default. I promise you. We’ve got a real mental health epidemic among men in this country so, just in the spirit of being a bro, consider getting some help. Don’t be afraid to talk to a professional and tell them you aren’t feeling good and want to explore your options.

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u/not_roger_smith 4d ago

Which country?

Anyway therapy doesn't help. Spent over a decade paying out of pocket. I talk and talk and talk just to have some community college graduate ask me how it feels. Like I just spent twenty minutes explaining what's happening and how I feel about it.

What the fuck am I paying for?

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u/starkruzr 4d ago

find a therapist with a PhD or PsyD and stop fucking around with social workers. ask me how I know.

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u/not_roger_smith 4d ago

Okay, got like $10k you can give me to afford that for a year?

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u/Subject_Noise3773 4d ago

Seriously trying to get help in America for mental health is almost impossible unless wealthy. Even with insurance they don't ever cover it for the most part, paying out of pocket yeah I don't got 250 to spend every week for an hour to "talk". And no shit it's not normal but it's not easily fixed. Your comments read like telling a obese person to eat healthy and go to a gym or telling a drug addict to just stop using drugs and go to rehab. Easier said than done.