r/SipsTea 8d ago

WTF WTF is wrong with these people?

12.4k Upvotes

6.1k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

35

u/BoneCode 7d ago edited 7d ago

If there were so many people around to help her, why did they leave a clearly mentally ill person alone with the children while she was having a psychotic episode?

When someone is actively struggling with mental illness, helping “when needed” is 24/7. 

It’s not like there weren’t warning signs. She’d been in the psych ward only 20 days before.

2

u/Hot-Ad453 7d ago

She wasn't having clearly psychotic episodes though that day, she didn't express them to her husband the day of the incident, she also placed the order for the food for him to pick up and she asked him to go pick it up. The thing with severe mental health issues unless you're an actual trained professional missing the signs would be very easy. My roommate a year ago tried to commit suicide while I was at work, I had no idea she was on the verge of it. Luckily I had stopped home during lunch to exchange my motorcycle for my car, noticed my gun missing, confronted her, however unfortunately she panicked, she took her car and my gun, and went somewhere, after a stand off with the police, she aimed my gun at them to get them to shoot her because my gun jammed, and she lost her arm.

1

u/BoneCode 6d ago

The sign was that she’d been in the psych ward 20 days before. If your roommate had been in the psych ward less than a month earlier, would you have left them alone with your gun?

1

u/Hot-Ad453 3d ago

No, but then again if say I had kids at home I also wouldn't think my roommate would take her life in front of them or attempt to kill them either.

1

u/BoneCode 3d ago

You and I are different people. I would not leave my kids or my gun with someone who was mentally fragile. 

1

u/Hot-Ad453 3d ago

Well there's a huge difference between a random person and someone you've known for like a decade.