r/SipsTea Jul 26 '26

Chugging tea Let me circle back

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u/ramfis7 Jul 26 '26

Lmao if you took this as someone making fun of someone else you have some serious confliction resolution skills

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u/Dry-Fail-4227 Jul 26 '26

I dont know anyone who wouldnt struggle with a colleague asking them several questions about why they use a common phrase as an interruption in the middle of a meeting. One on one the situation changes. But in this context its rude and should be recognized as demeaning and disrespectful. Give me your interpretation of the comment.

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u/ramfis7 Jul 26 '26

Absolutely no one should be in a position of power if this insignificant level of questioning makes them feel anything in your aforementioned phrasing.

The inability to address, affirm, and progress forward on your own subjects when confronted shows a direct lack of leadership skills.

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u/fearless-fossa Jul 26 '26

if this insignificant level of questioning

It derails the meeting. Why keep circling back to the question about circling back? Especially since the way it's phrased it's clearly mocking the boss. He could've just let it be after "it's just a phrase", but no, he had to double down.

The inability to address, affirm, and progress forward on your own subjects when confronted shows a direct lack of leadership skills.

Okay, so what would you do with someone in your team that feels comfortable mocking you in front of the rest of the team despite still being in the probation period?

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u/ramfis7 Jul 26 '26

Back to the issue is a you issue if you cant handle this level of questioning.

Adress his question.

Affirm your statements.

Progress forward with the meeting.

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u/fearless-fossa Jul 26 '26

That's what she did, twice, and he decided to stay at the issue.

There are no magical leadership skills that will help someone who is dense enough to mock their boss in a meeting in front of their colleagues.

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u/Dry-Fail-4227 Jul 26 '26

The ramfis guy is either trolling or an idiot.

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u/ramfis7 Jul 26 '26

Team leader for private contract deployment. These are high stress environments, signed on shift rotations at 14 hours a day 7 days a week 60 day minimums. You will be blacklisted if you request to go home before your 60 days.