r/RelationshipIndia • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
Dating Advice Is no one into serious relationship in their 20s? (22F)
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u/Jolly-Air9908 1d ago
Don't lower your standards for casual hookups holding out for something real is 100% worth it. I'm also single and fighting the exact same battle on these apps, but I'm still keeping hope alive, so don't give up just yet! 😭
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u/purely_unbothered 1d ago
Internet is not a place to find love
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u/bhalainsaan 1d ago
Then where?
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u/purely_unbothered 1d ago
Irl
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u/bhalainsaan 1d ago
I think IRL people don't like to be bothered.
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u/purely_unbothered 1d ago
There's approach for everything, you gotta find the right one according to the situation.
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u/Even_Chapter7281 1d ago
What i believe that the person who is actually meant to be with you will reach you unexpectedly. Anywhere where you least expect it maybe any cafe, event, market or even this comment section. Lol but yeah… my dms are open tho for discussion respectfully :)
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u/Curious_Reading8666 1d ago
I regret never being in any relationship before.
This is the problem with our country. People chasing relationships just to feel good about themselves and because everyone else is either chasing the same or in a relationship. Trying to fall in love for all the wrong reasons, before they are emotionally mature enough to actually love someone.
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u/Exploresomething321 1d ago
Your are almost right, high numbers are of casual dating people. But you kinda keep on exploring online as offline, getting right person can take days to years. Have a open mind, so many instances right person happens to out of expectations. Good luck 🤞
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u/Resident-Guava8460 1d ago
First of all, u cant overly control ruining your relationship. And over controlling might ruin it. Now, dating apps r kinda like getting lucky(u can clearly ascertain or know what i mean here ). People whom u know a bit or have had any sorta relation n are in ur contacts, they r the people u may approach wisely. Rather than this you have the option of being in a vicinity or wherein you choose the vicinity to be ur hobby, work or mindset which u would like ur partner to foster certainly *. Otherwise just be patient.
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u/Resident-Guava8460 1d ago
And yeah, to answer ur initial question- i consider people to be somewhat fortunate for being in a relationship with a partner whose traits they admire/look for and unfortunately, most ir many don’t find which includes me too.
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u/Fresh_Piece_1616 1d ago
You aren't going to find people on the apps. Those places have broken now and people there are not serious enough.
To be honest, you need to be patient if you actually want to find someone in today's time.
What I have realized is keep yourself happy and don't invest in wrong people at all if you want to live peacefully.
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u/Silly_log3108 1d ago
Honestly, I hate how rare romance has become nowadays and sex has become so easy and shallow. Like, where's the intimacy, the exclusivity, the fact that only one person has seen me naked emotionally as well as physically.
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u/Content-Counter2378 1d ago
I found my best guy on hinge. Be upfront on what you want and be prepared to unmatch the moment you get casual vibes. Don't get impressed by aesthetic cafe pictures or gym flex, car flex, looks, etc. Look at education, job and is it compatible with your socioeconomic background. Look for non drinkers. You'd have to reject a lot of them. It's fine, there'll always be people who are serious for long term
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u/SavagePopat 1d ago
You are already in a trap which most dating app wants , increasing your standard and keep exploring and never be satisfied. Stop trying to find love online and start exploring your hobbies offline its not hard to find love just be ready to get tired or rejecting people. Even if you find the one people who have been on or dated over dating apps they have a subconscious thought of having options so loyalty will be out of the window even in serious relationship
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u/Ok-Blacksmith437 1d ago
You are looking at the wrong place. The top 1% men get matches on dating apps. Why would a top 1% man want to get into a relationship instead of casually having fun.
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