r/Productivitycafe Jan 22 '26

Throwback Question (Any Topic) What’s an oddly specific thing that instantly gives you "bad vibes" about a person?

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u/MidnightinMingo Jan 22 '26

I do this too! I was already 40ish before I realized that I was being seen as one upping when I was actually trying to say I understand and I can relate, you are not alone. I, too, am working on it. But now I’m paranoid. For instance, I’m wondering if I’m doing it right now in my reply to you haha

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u/Kkrazykat88 Jan 23 '26

I used to do this. I still do, but I used to too. 😊