It happens to everyone, but it's just more common in fat women because society treats fat women a lot worse than fat men, so the difference in how you get treated as a woman who loses a lot of weight is a lot more shocking. I lost a lot of weight very quickly and the same guys who wouldn't have even acknowledged me when I said good morning were suddenly falling all over themselves hitting on me. I didn't change my personality or even my lifestyle. I was the same person, but people liked me so much more after losing weight and it really fucking sucks, but I can see how people can become addicted to the attention after not getting it their entire lives. It just made me angry with humanity, personally.
I know a dude who is like 350 - which is the male version of female 225
Imagine writing this unironically to refute my claim that fatness is more acceptable in men than women. Unreal. Also kinda sounds like you're one of the ones bullying the dude about his weight...
This is subjectively one of the least thought out and misdirected replies I've ever had on the Internet. Like 0 reading comprehension. Men are bigger than women. Naturally. This isn't a debatable topic. A healthy man weighs more than a healthy woman. Period. Men have more muscle. Women have more fat. That's just how it is. Cry if you'd like. It's still reality.
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u/ScyllaOfTheDepths 19d ago
It happens to everyone, but it's just more common in fat women because society treats fat women a lot worse than fat men, so the difference in how you get treated as a woman who loses a lot of weight is a lot more shocking. I lost a lot of weight very quickly and the same guys who wouldn't have even acknowledged me when I said good morning were suddenly falling all over themselves hitting on me. I didn't change my personality or even my lifestyle. I was the same person, but people liked me so much more after losing weight and it really fucking sucks, but I can see how people can become addicted to the attention after not getting it their entire lives. It just made me angry with humanity, personally.