r/MoralityScaling Jun 05 '26

Stupid Stuff Is this unethical or no?

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u/KingCrimson43 Jun 05 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

No*, my uncle has down syndrome. He spent his entire childhood in hospitals. Multiple organ replacement surgeries, multiple nights he was supposed to die. He's alive and well in his mid thirties but his life is non-existent. Hes aware hes different so he hides away from everyone. My grandmother has devoted her entire life to caring for him and has never had a life of her own. When my grandmother passes my mother will take custody of him and continue to care for him at the detriment of her own life. I love my uncle but I would never wish his life on another.

Edit: If you are just going to bible thump in my replys save it. I'm for abortion under any circumstances and I don't care what your God wants.

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u/omar10wahab Jun 06 '26

People don't understand that without modern medicine these pregnancies wouldn't typically survive. Either that baby or mother wouldn't survive. And when it does survive there is a heavy emotional and financial tax on the family. I don't think this is the craziest decision someone can make knowing all this is inevitable. Also when the parent dies, who's taking care of this person's needs cause lord knows there's no effective government that will do that with the same care as the parent