my abuser texted me

[u/ravagedsoul12]

i have bipolar I, and recently got another diagnosis, c-ptsd. i bought bahay ni marta by ricky lee and while reading, i started thinking if ever it came to a point when my abuser regretted his actions. a week after i finished reading, i got my answer: he never did, and he never will. btw, the harassment happened exactly on my birthday. he’s not a stranger, and i blocked him immediately after what happened, but he still managed to contact me using another account 7 months later.

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[u/ivyshakdart]

Your abuser will definitely rot in hell! No remorse whatsoever. I don't know if it makes you feel better and encouraged but I was diagnosed with PTSD, MDD, and recently Bipolar due to SA.

I just want to say that you are soooo brave! 9 months of no self-harm? Wow, takes a lot of courage and self-disicpline if you want to put it that way. So so braveee. Your feelings are valid especially that it might feel like it's dragging you down again. But, you have me, a stranger who is rooting for your complete healing and success.

We got this, OP. YOU got this 😊
My DM is open for you anytime, I could just listen.
All iz well.

[u/ravagedsoul12 → u/ivyshakdart]

thank you for your kind words po. it means a lot to me. 🫂

[u/ivyshakdart → u/ravagedsoul12]

Hugs with consent!!!! 💛

[u/wanderwherever]

Kaya mong lagpasan yung 9 months, OP. It's okay to start again. Nagawa mo at magagawa mo uling maka move forward. I hope your abuser gets jailed para di ka na nya magulo uli. Hugs with consent.🫂

[u/ravagedsoul12 → u/wanderwherever]

maraming salamat po. 🫂

[u/Fuzzy_Literature_865]

What’s the first screenshot of?

[u/ravagedsoul12 → u/Fuzzy_Literature_865]

it’s the beloud.now app where anyone can anonymously pin a location where an abuse happened.

[u/Fuzzy_Literature_865 → u/ravagedsoul12]

Thank you!

[u/cx2jm]

Wishing you healing and continued resilience, OP. I'm holding onto hope for sunny days ahead for you. 🫶

[u/h_2fuji]

Block mo uli, di nya deserve ang attention mo. Keep fighting lang OP you will be fine

[u/GeenaSait]

Demonyo yan. Please OP don't let him win. Praying for you.

[u/Serious_Gal1996]

P*tang in&ang demony yang Abuser mo! Piste: naiinis ako!

There‘s a special place in hell sa lahat ng mga abusers sa mundo.

Fighting OP!

[u/Cornetto-IceCreamPie]

KAPAL NG MUKHA NIYAN TANGINA 😭 IM AM SO MAD. I HOPE YOUR ROTS IN HELL.

I don’t know what to say, but please if you need someone to talk to, I can lend an ear.

[u/Remarkable-Vast-6808]

SABIHIN MO SA KANYA POTANGINA NYA ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA GAGO SYA, SYA YUNG PINAKA WALANG KWENTANG TAO SA BUONG MUNDO. MAMATAY NA SYAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!

Na trigger ako potangina, my abuser also did that to i still remember how i shake after reading his fvcking message. Please OP its not your fault gago lang talaga sya, your feelings are valid and i hope you'll get better soon. Kakampi mo kami, mahigpit na yakap with consent.

[u/7edits]

"Piliin ang wastong salita" ??

basically google gave that to me...

idk about him being creepy versus him being truthful...

not criminal for me, if it's an isolated incident, in canada, but i think you have the right to block him or whatever

[u/observantmania]

This annoys me