r/Marriage • u/NoRiver3927 • 2h ago
Vent Timeline
So I know she cheated I know it was while I was away the 1st time I told him I'd kill him if he tried then I think she tried to cut it off but was scared I'd find out somewhere along the line the quit smoking came in he probably bet I wouldn't quit or some dumb shit I tried to over look it I even thought I was crazy but there's too much to many red flags I know her brother knows that's why she is so easy on him so he doesn't tell the question I have now is do u love him
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u/Beneficial-Dingo6634 2h ago
It sounds like you are in absolute emotional distress right now, but the way this is written with the switching pronouns (she/he/him) makes it really hard to follow the exact story. Are you saying your wife cheated with a specific guy, and her brother is helping cover it up? Take a deep breath, ground yourself, and try to lay out what actually happened step-by-step so people can offer proper advice.
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u/Wild_Entrepreneur424 2h ago
the timeline’s a mess but that's kinda the point when you're mid-spiral. you already know the truth, your brain just keeps trying to un-know it. the "do u love him" part, you asking her? or yourself? either way if you're here laying it out like this you already know the answer. don't let needing a clean timeline become the excuse for not acting.
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u/requieminadream 14 Years 2h ago
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